Wow, I feel like a bad guy right now. I had to babysit this girl I haven't seen since she was 5 and now she's 12. I was playing games with her and you know doing girl stuff to pass the time. She was asking question about puberty and boys and friends all that. Right when we had begun stacking up on ice cream this really short little blonde boy climbs through the window. Now, I thought to myself he must be trying to commit suicide, coming through the window like it was his home. So I grabbed him by his shirt and asked him who he was and he said he was her bf. I looked at her and she admitted he was. So I kindly told him he couldn't stay and must leave. But he tells me he won't. So I said leave before I call your mother (like I knew who she was... right). And this little munchkin calls me a "b*tch" and punches me in the boob. Of course I wasn't going to take this and I carried his little but on my shoulders outside the house and asked him where he lived, but he wouldn't tell me. But the girl did and I took him home, and the girl came with me. His mother was hysterical that he had snuck out... how could you not notice your son sneak out the house? What a parent. So anyway when we got home this girl turned into Mr. Hyde and started screaming and yelling at me for "throwing her boyfriend out the house". I told her to calm down and that she was she too young to be seeing boys. Next thing I knew she was throwing things, stomping around the house and cursing me out. She literally turned into the wicked witch of the west. At this point I was dazed so I tried to calm her down. I told her that her father would not like how she was acting and she just screamed even louder and said she could care less. She started throwing the souvenirs her dad would bring from his business trips where he traveled and that's when I knew I had to settle this. So I picked her up and sat her down on the couch and of course she started screaming murder. She pulled some hair, scratched or clawed(still have the marks), and yeah she tried to fight me and stuff but I pushed her back on the couch. Let her get out some frustration and then she eventually calmed down. She wouldn't tell me anything when I asked her and I got her some ice cream from the kitchen and she fell asleep watching a movie. I was still surprised at what happened. But her dad came home when she was sleeping. I told him what happened and he said he'll deal with it but he want's me to watch her again tomorrow. What is wrong with this girl? First she was all nice and sweet and then she turned into a psycho path. I don't mind watching her again because she's really nice (when she's not crazy). But I don't know what is going on with her. Her dad is traveling alot which is why I watch her a few times when her aunt can't but I don't want to have to "fight" her again. I'm gonna have to start bringing armor with me lol. But do you have any idea what's wrong with her or how I can deal with this? I want to keep the skin on my arms and hte hair on my head lol.
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Um...Yeah
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i got ot go back and read the rest. lol but... In reply to: His mother was hysterical that he had snuck out... how could you not notice your son sneak out the house? i dk.. LMAo but i remeber back when Ry snuck out and he got busted! Ryan's done it many times. i hatd it when he snuck out but..nvm... k going to read the rest of ur post LMAO
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In reply to:What is wrong with this girl? she was nice compaired to some of the shit i do.
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You shouldn't feel bad about what you did. If anything that girl should feel bad. You describe it as if she is that girl from the Exorcist! But she is obviously VERY VERY defensive of her, "boyfriend," at twelve years old. I'm betting she feels that it is one of the things she can try and hold on to with the uncertainty in her life, what with her dad being away most of the time. I'm guessing he is a constant in her life. But if she ever does go psycho like that again, just establish who the boss is and maintain control.And how many times does this kid climb through the window to meet her anyway?
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you shoudl just tell her parents that when no one is home she is letting boys come over and they are probably having sex. That should scare the parents enough to kick the shit out of her. Girls that age shouldnt have boys over unsupervised. They are too easy will let a boy do anything to them.
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Parents should know what their kids are doing, but it's almost impossible to keep the kids apart. (Remember Romeo and Juliet?) I assume you were kidding about the parents kicking the shit out of her.I get the impression that you think tht all kids are sex fiends that need to be kept in a harness 24/7, or they'll be copulating. Kids need the involvement of their parent(s), an understanding of what's right and what's wrong, and an understanding of human reproduction. Unless one knows that they're having sex, it would be pretty bad to tell the parents that their daughter is having sex.Smooches> His mother was hysterical that he had snuck outShe should have also been upset that he physically assaulted an adult. The girl's parents should have been upset for the same reason.Frankly, I wouldn't put up with being hit by a 12-year-old. I'd ask the parents to find someone else.
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naw i wasnt kidding. I see the way parents discipline their kids nowadays. They dont. Everyone is all against even scolding their kids nowadays let alone hit them. I see too many young people get away with things that you you would never see or hear about 10 years ago. The youth is slowly taking over and they dont know whats good for them because there is no one there to teach them.
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The youth is slowly taking over...Jeez, what generation didn't think that? You sound like an old man.In countries besides the U.S. and England (e.g., Scandinavia), kids don't seem to be making babies at the rate they are here. I don't think the Swedes are beating the crap out of their kids. On the contrary, I think a lot of kids who are busted for violent crimes have a history of being beaten up by their parent(s).You should watch "Nanny 911", etc. to see how it's done. You can discipline kids and get them to do the right thing without turning them into enemies.
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i seen nanny 911, it seems scripted, or edited big time. For a 23 year old i do feel old. Seeing the way high school kids act, i really dont remember being that immature. I remember i was waiting outside for my friend to pick me up once and I was in a suit, and saw a group of high schoolers acting all rowdy and shit. I just ignored them but then one of them decided to walk up to me and got in my face. I guess he was trying to intimidate me, anyways he said something to me and I just ingnored him and he grabbed my shoulder. I guess he thought i had money and intended to rob me since he asked me to give him my wallet. I ended up knocking him out and all his friends ran towards me and I had to litterally kick the shit out of them to save my own ass. I ended up losing a button on my jacket but they all ended up getting arrested for assault after i was done with them and called the cops. Lucky for me I had witnesses it was like 5vs1, fucking kids i swear....
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Sounds like a bad experience, but most high school kids want to rob people. I doubt that getting slapped around by their parents would have made them act any better.It's too bad no one was videoing you beating up a gang of guys singlehandedly...sounds like Jackie Chan.
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You were in a fight with five people...and you won?? Wearing a suit too. Sure ya did buddy.
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yea when i used to have long hair my coworkers called me that. lol Its not like i didnt get hit though, i just have a higher pain tolerance than most people do.
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I know, I was thinking about whether or not I should, but her dad is under alot of pressure and I know he needs the help. If it weren't for the fact that he knew my parents since high school I'd definately reconsider. It's kinda hard just saying "no".
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Did you discuss the hitting thing with her parents? Do they have any ideas on how to keep it from happening again?
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Well her mom died in a fire a long time ago, so I just talk to her dad, but he's so obsessed with his job he barely notices what is going on with his own daughter.
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He's really shortchanging his kid(s). It's too bad you also have to suffer.
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I think you're in a "no win" situation, Smooches. To physically restrain a child, or use any kind of force, is to invite trouble, even when it is justified. I would not babysit for that family again. It's just too risky.