So my dad heard us...

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Well it was the first time i had my girlfriend sleepover. It was last weekend and we had a great time. We didnt have sex but we did everything else especially me pleasuring her, i love pleasuring her. So we wake up and i see she wants some loving so we get down to it and i eat her out and finger her for like 30 min and she is VERY loud. So anyway its 6 am and we are doing this and i hear my dad cough. So im like oh shit hes up. He was at the bottom of the stairs my room is up and around a corner. I disregarded it and kept going. Then 5 min later he calls me downstairs. Im like oh fuck im soaked in vaginal secretions. So i wipe off my face and hands and run down really quick. And he goes, i dont like what im hearing. And i say dad come on we arent doing anything crazy. And he just says cut it out. So i go back up and finish up quickly. I have a terrible schedual so i see my dad two days later. He tells me all this shit about he doesnt want me doing shit im only 15. And he says, are you going to try to tell me you didnt have sex with her? Im totally shocked and very pissed. Because i honestly didnt. My dads the type of guy who can never be wrong so he goes yeah whatever. So now im pissed that he thinks we are having sex and i dont know what to tell my girlfriend. I dont want her to be embarrassed. What can i do?

Thanks

well as long as YOU know that you're not having sex, that is all that matters right. I gotta give you props though dude, you are one of the few dudes on this forum that can have a great time with your girlfriend without having sex but still be able to pleasure her and stuff. Most kids come in here and say something like "i put my dick in my girlfriend and i cummed but she didnt have an orgasm, what did i do wrong??" If he doesnt believe you then don't bother trying to convince him. Everyone knows parents are hardheaded sometimes, I know mines are-shit to this day they still think I'm a druggie and I'm in some violent street gang (I only experimented with drugs after 10 years of them accussing me of doing it and I have never been in a gang or associated with them). Just as long as YOU know you are doing the right thing then thats all that matters.

I think more than just a few people would be suprised to know that, tho you both enjoy pleasing eachother ect, that you hadn't had sex..................and i think thats where your dad is coming from, put with that the sound your GF was making and come on, if i were your mum i think i would jump to the same conclusion........Give your dad a break, personally if you were my son i wouldn't let your GF stay over to be honest.............its SO hard to think of your children becoming sexually active, but to have it shoved in your face, i actually think was a bit disrespectful.....put a pillow over your girlfriends face next time.............oh and you will totally disagree with everything i have said (as i did when i was your age) until you have kids of your own

Well its sad to say i pretty much run this house and im the most mature person living in it, my relatives agree. my parents arent the most stable people. so if i want my girlfriend to sleep over she is going to. and i didnt throw anything in their faces. it was at 6 in the morning haha i didnt expect anyone to be up. but i think my parents need to understand im a kid im gonna explore and do shit and if im atleast not having sex and im not, why cant they be ok about it. and ugh kids. i hate kids i will never have kids.oh and the pillow only worked until she threw it across the room and moaned loudly

not having sex and im notWhen did the word "sex" come to mean intercourse? Is this Bill Clinton's fault? You and your girlfriend had sex.If a 15-year-old is the most mature person in a house with two (?) parents, then you are in a pretty screwed up situation. Don't you think having a sleep-over with loud sex is maybe a bit disrespectful (in their face) to your parents? Do the girl's parents have any idea what's going on?

right, just say, 'listen dad, if i want to fuck her in the ass, i will do it whether you want me to or not.'then slap him in the face w your cock

I dont care if its disrespectful. If my parents acted like parents i would respect them.

So its, they crap on you, you crap on them?

Wow. You're kinda rude. I thought eating someone out was considered oral sex but hey what do I know. Give your dad break. He heard her moaning and she's your gf so what was he to expect? Personally, I think it's rude to do that kinda stuff when my parents are around, and my bf would never do that because he has the utmost respect for them. Even IF (big emphasis on the IF) I was more mature than my mom or dad I would still have respect and say sorry mom or dad never again.

im not gonna put my life and my enjoyments on hold for my douche parents who are never home and party all the time. they should have never had kids, they are assholes. im only here because i have to be. i dont see how you could respect someone who doesnt do anything for you. all they did was give me life and that isnt enough for me to respect them. its better to be safe and have fun at my or her house than to go out to some house party and fuck my life up sorry if nobody can understand that. i didnt throw it in their face. it was 6 in the morning i didnt expect them to be up. i didnt even expect them to be home but i guees its just my luck.

Giving you life should be all you need to give them respect. If it weren't for them you wouldn't be eating your gf out or talking on this board. If they didn't care about you, you would not be in their house. Have a little respect, they are way older than you and taught you, fed you, clothed you, paid for your education. You have to have respect for that. All parent's should have some respect for not giving their children up for adoption or worse abortion. No matter how crappy they are. And it pisses me off that you could talk so badly about those who love you and are only looking out for you. Because who is gonna be with you when things turn around. Your gf isn't always going to be there. Your parents are. She didn't give you birth. Your mother and father did. So show some respect or at least get out the house if you think they're such horrible parents and go live with your gf. Your parents dont deserve to have their son talking on a website about how he has no respect for them. That's so crappy. And you're way too young so calm your sexual activities down a notch.

Not really knowing his situation, we can't really judge. Suppose his father beats the crap out of him every day, and mentally tortures him the rest of the time? Not every parent is worthy of respect, even though the commandment on the subject has no exception clause.

Do you pay all the household bills?

Yeah but he didn't say anything about his father beating him. To me it sounds like his father is overprotective or something. And the way he's saying how he's more mature and how they party... yeah. I don't mean to come on hard on him it's just that you can't be mad at your parents for caring, for being single-minded, for being over-protective. Because you never know how much you love someone until you lose them. And though he may think his parents are immature and all that non-sense, if they were to die at any moment he really wouldn't know what to do with himself.

its kinda find you said you didnt expect your parents to be home, in their own home....just wanted to point that out..

He said they're out partying all the time.

We don't have enough information to jump to a judgement.

At 6 am? Yeah I guess so. My sister usually comes homes from parties around that time. He still could have expected. Things aren't always that easy to get away with. I wish.

its been ages since i came home that late from a party. Now the latest i get back from a party is around 1am. Things change a lot when you have a job and responsibilities, staying out that late just isnt an option anymore..

No i dont pay the household bills. I dont want to live here lol. If they would let me live at maybe a boys home id be happy. I dont understand why this had to get so personal. Some of you need to understand that not every parent deserves respect. Maybe if they acted like parents i would. But really i dont care about your telling me what to do and how to treat people. i treat them how they deserve to be treated, they are irresponsible cunts who jump on my case any chance they get. I just dont know what im supposed to do cause i love my girlfriend and i dont wanna have to not do anything with her just because its disrespectful to my lame parents.