me and my gf have a great sex life. BUTTTT i hate it how she will watch porn of people gettin fucked up the ass, hardcore porno, and cum shot facial porno. I have had anal sex with my gf many times and only once a facial. I always do everything she wants and she always is spent lol. The thing is im starting to get turned off by my gf by the way she teases me. It isnt good, one day she will be beggin for me over the fone wen i avnt seen her. She will say she wants it up the ass so bad and she wants my cock in her ass etc. Then she will say she wants me to spray my cum all over her face etc. Then wen were in the bedroom..nuffin happens apart from sex Im always tryin to put forward ideas she says and stuff she says but she never wants to. Should i confront her about this? She says wen she watches porn it makes her feel dirty.. we always do it ruff in bed and stuff that she likes..but i want more that..am i being selfish? i dont understand why she can talk, watch and think about it all..then wen it comes down..she doesnt want it..i feel bad ranting, and i feel like a horrible bf. What should i do?
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When it comes to it!
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What should you do? Did I read this right: you say you have anal sex with your girlfriend often? Um, I think what you should do it shut up and enjoy it. No offense.
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I'm confused. She apparently likes watching hardcore porn then says it makes her feel dirty? She teases you over the phone then doesn't deliver, but you have wild crazy sex? Hmm...On to what you mentioned about her talking over the phone though. I've been guilty of this myself. I've had times when I liked teasing a guy over the phone to get myself worked up. Time passes before my boyfriend comes over and I'm either not as horny as I was, or the fantasies went out the window. It is somewhat selfish, I guess.You should definitely tell her how much it bothers you. Tell her it drives you crazy when she talks like that. Although, because of what you said about being "ruff in bed" I'm not entirely sure what you want.
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ermm i think after re reading my message many times it makes me seem like such a dick head, but i used to have anal sex often with my gf 8months ago. We had anal sex before vaginal. What normally happens is she just doesnt want to do anything she says she wants to and when i want to she is like "no". Get me?..im not a very intelligent person..nor does it help i had a few drinks. So sorry if u dont understand
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the ruff in bed part is what she likes. Even tho i like it aswell. She likes being dominated thats what i meant by ruff in bed. which many woman seem to like. Thank you for your message winged:)
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he is stating that she says she wants him to do certain things, but when they are having sex she does not want him to do it. And he is saying that he wants to do it and does not want to be selfish for talking to her about it.I say talk to her. let her know how ya feel.
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im goin to talk to her about it 2morrow:).(off topic)walken! ur a united fan!? ruud is avin a bit of a bad run! they can win it this year! and did u see Henrys goal against AJAX?..great stuff
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You're GF is enjoying the thought of it, but is probably worried about anal sex hurting, so kinda chickens out when it come to the time, OR, is she likes it rough, she wants you to make her have anal with her, then she doens't have to think about it LOLBeing able to talk is a very important part of any relationship, so talk to her, find out, tell her its pissing you off.