She seems to be complaining a lot, more than usual(lol), but this might be because of her period. Recently her mom and her got in a fight and haven't been talking to each other(Her mom has some serious issues). She also hasn't seen me in like 4 days so that's stressing her out a lot more I guess. She told me that she's been biting her finger tips a lot and pulling on her hair. This is worrying me... Her mom said that she should get new parents and leave. No mother, or anyone, should ever say such a thing to a kid. On her birth certificate it says a different name than the name she uses now. Apparently her dad was drunk when telling the doctors her name and spelled it wrong. Because of this she cannot get a job or drive until it's cleared up. Because of all this she calls herself and her life so retarded. I love her a lot but she thinks about suicide a lot . I'm currently trying to get her to sleep at my house for a few days to take a break from home. We also discussed her running away to my house after what her mom told her...We could get in trouble with that couldn't we?
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Girl Friend seems really depressed...
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how old is she? if shes 18 she can goto your house anytime without anyones permission. If shes underaged then you might have some issues. If her parents have said to her face that she should leave then, she should leave. I dont think you can get in trouble if she runs away to your house. Its her choice, you didnt kidnap her. If the parents try to take some legal action just make sure your girlfriend is behind you 100% and tells the authorities that there is some abuse going on in her household (yes verbal abuse is a form of abuse). I doubt you will get in any kind of legal trouble though, unless you are like older than her and you guys have sex or something.
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oh yea as far as her name thing goes, she can change her name without her parents being there. Its some kind of court procedure but yea she can change her name to whatever she likes (there are nuts out there who have changed their names to those of their favorite sports teams so her just fixing her name isnt going to be an issue) She can also legally divorce her parents but if she is underaged they will put her in some foster home. Its possible for your family to become her legal guardians too but your parents have to it. Honestly though, if shes suicidal she needs to get out of that house. Staying with her parents wont make things any better. Trust me you cant change people esecially irrational adults you can dont change yourself.
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yes she is underaged. She is turning 16 next month, and i'm also 16. I mean do you think her mom would call the cops on us if she just left for a week or like 3 days? Right now all of her friends are at damn camp so they aren't much help.
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well that really depends on her mom. Was her mom serious when she told your girlfriend to leave and find other parents? Sometimes parents are serious like that and they wont give a damn what happens to their kids. If she is then she probably wouldnt care enough to call the cops.
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I think her mom was serious. She doesn't seem to like her daughter much compared to her female cousins. She bought her cousin a guitar but won't give my girlfriend like anything, including some pocket money.
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its your call dude, hard to say how people would react to stuff like this. if your parents are kool with it and they will back you up if her mom tries to get phsycho later on i say go for it. Help the poor girl out, she may be your future wife you'll never know.