Dumped

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Tonight I got dumped. I guess I really can't say dumped, we mutually discussed things for about 2 hours. She said she jumped into another relationship too fast, and she needs time to find herself before she can be with anyone. She works like 30 hours a week and does homework and school, so basically she doesn't have time for a relationship right now. That's what she said, but I asked if there was anyway that we could make this work, she said no way at all. I want to hear from a girl's perpective... did she dump me because of her or me? She still says that she wants to be friends... but I don't know I can cope with that. She meant the world to me. Discuss. Is there any way for me to get her back?

Stick around. I've seen this a lot. She won't hook up with anyone else if she said what she meant.

mandude i don't know what to say... but youe were asking girls awny way lol mandude i'm tired of trying to figure girls out. i give they can never make up there minds

I met a girl recently that actually makes sense.

cool. tell her to give laces a talk lmao!

I'm in the same boat...except she has time for now...This totally sucks and the feeling hurts, but she'll probably come back as soon as she gets over it. Just keep in touch and stay good friends...its the best you can do until shes ready...

lmao. Sometimes, ones that don't make sense are cool too. lol :grin:

I'm hoping that she doesn't take a long time to find herself. She said she wants to hang out as friends.. she had no time for me as her boyfriend, how much time could she have as a friend. I will stay close to her though, because she's the closest I have been to any person in my life. She knows more about me than anyone. I don't know how she could balance me between her best friend and me, it seems like she would want to spend all her spare time alone or with him (he's gay). I'm hoping she only needs a month or two, or until school is out in June. This kills me.. but I WILL wait. If she finds someone else... I don't know what I would do.

Do you think it would be okay for me to buy a book about 'finding yourself' to let her know that I care. Or would that be inappropriate?

I wouldn't do that.

In reply to: lmao. Sometimes, ones that don't make sense are cool too. lol lol yeah

So that would make me cool then.... :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

Yah.. i decided that would be a pretty stupid idea. Instead I'm gonna go get drunk.

Yes, you are very kewl in my book.

LOL thanks..

Anytime.

well.. this topic is kind of getting off course.. not really helping

How long do you think I should wait before I call her or hang out with her again, in order to impliment the 'friend' role. To show her that I am there for her when she needs me, and to let her know how much I care about her.

hard to say man, my gf broke up with me like a month and said she still wanted to be friends

but now when i see her i can't act the same around her its weird...

so i don't really think there is a set time frame

but why did she break up with you? Mine told me it was because she has no time and needed time. I think that once the summertime comes, she will have all the time.. being done school... Do you guys think that this is just false hope? I'm going to try dating and shit again, but she will always be on my mind, and i'll be wondering if we will be together again.

i think you're headed in the right direction. Just wait and be patient. Go along with what you feel and don't have any regrets.