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    4U2NV

    Her reason for cheating, well she was drinking one night and it just happened.

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    4U2NV

    Okay well heres the deal. I am 22 years old and have been with this chick for about a year. Well within the first 2 months we got engaged and I think the main reason was because I was leaving to work in Kuwait. Well around Christmas I found out that she had cheated on me and aftre some thought we decided that we should give it another shot and see what happened. I have been back home for about 30 days and am now back in Kuwait for another 4 months and when we are together I dont have any doubts that that is what I want. I want the two of us too be together for the rest of our lives, but the second I leave I start questioning what she is doing and if wonder if she is out cheating or whatever else. I would say that I question what she is doing about 2 times a week. Well we are supose to get married on Dec 18 2004 and I guess my question is do you think I will ever be able to trust her and have the great relationship like we did before she cheated? Any help suggestions or anything else would be appriciated.

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    Well thanks for the replys everyone, I like the test drive theory. I guess I am thinking of being stupid and giving her another chance, Burn me once shame on you, burn me twice shame on me. I've given other people chances before so I might as well give her a chance too. Who knows maybe one day I will need the second chance and she will give it too me. It definatly makes me look at her different though. I guess time will tell if we are right for eachother, if not there are plenty more fish in the sea. Once again thanks everyone and hopefully the (mywordsRweapons) has a better day. I think he needs to get his head examined but hey thanks for the comments anyways.

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    Thanks for the info. We were scedualled to go to Italy for Valentines day so I guess I am going to try and make it work til then and talk about it all some more while we are there. I think it will take a while to trust her again and i have told her that. I guess it would make more since to me if she talked about it more, but she just wants to drop it like it never happend. She has agreed to cease all communication with the guy and quit drinking while I am away, should I ask for anything more. Its kind of hard to make up when you are away so I don't know what to expect of her.

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    4U2NV

    Okay heres the deal me and my girl are both 21 we are engaged however the last 3 months I have been ina different country and unable to see her. Well I found out that she had cheated on me last week and not told me. I confronted her about it and she played stupid for a little bit then told me what happened. I guess what I am asking is do you think it is possible that I will ever trust her again? Should I try to work it out with her? How should I react or expect her to react to what happend? Any thoughts would be helpful. Thank you

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