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    Curious2006

    well.....im not a guy but i would have to say both questions would depend on if we were haveing sex....if i was a guy and say a 1 night stand or a new gf peed ON me i would be really really grossed out...id try not to make her feel bad, but it would certainly be the end of sex, and time for me to take a shower....by myself.if it was a long term relationship and she accidentaly peed on me if we were haveing sex or next to me if we werent haveing sex yet....we would certainly stop for the time being at least...but it wouldent change me opinion of her at all....i just would be a bit more carefull in the future to make sure she went potty b4 the big O lol

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    Curious2006

    i apreseate the fact that people are trying to help, but seriosly virtual_star...i think its really screwed up of you to give lectures...especially when asked not to...the only thing that can accomplish is makeing people stop asking...and where would that lead us, people being afraid to ask on afraidtoask.com???...because they are worried that someone like you or you....will lecture them....people come here to ask questions that they need/ just want advise on...i ask thinks here that i dont want to ask anywhere else because people will try to shove their opinions down my throught...if my posts bother you so much dont read them.....and  Quote: 2) STOP HAVING SEX UNTIL YOU'RE READY!For the record....i am ready for sex...just not for a baby...a hole hell of a lot of poeple are in the same situation, sex isnt just for the purpose of procreation....it is also a form of intimacy....and its not for you to deside when you think someone is ready....  Quote: even with taking so much pills, I'm going to give you two options:1) START USING CONDOMS!!!or 2) STOP HAVING SEX UNTIL YOU'RE READY!Understand that taking so much pills into your system is NOT a game and it could cause you to have serious problems. Please, you need to get your act together. first who are you to dictate what my options are?secondly....i called my dr and asked if it would be alright to take plan b in conjunction with the desogen.....and she told me that it wouldent hurt me or my uterus....so i dont like the insinuation that i am running around poping pills and completly screwing myself over...i havent taken plan b for a LONG TIME before this week...i have only ever taken it three times...ever...it seems to me that you think im running around with a pocket full and takeing a few every couple hours...which i trully not the case.... i know that its harsh on ones system...but i was told that it was ok...everything iv taken has been under a doctors supervision.....and until i see your doctoral degree in obstetrics...her advise on plan b trumps yoursalot of people get worried that they are pregnant...thats where the term "pregnancy scare" comes from...honestly what my fear comes from is not the being pregnant, haveing a baby, telling my family or nething like...what im thinking about is how are we (my boyfriend and i) going be able to support this child the way it deserves when we are freshmen in college....trust me...there is nothing id rather do than be a mother...but with that i realize the finantial responsibility....i just dont want to have kids untill i can provide a life for them that i know they deserve....i realize that you are probably just trying to help me...but seriously i think you need to rethink your methods....what will makeing people afraid to ask accomplish?

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    Curious2006

    mkay....i have been on lutera bc pills for the past year almost...they made my pms and cramping way worse, but i only just switched to a different type last month right after my last period...i switched to desogen....my boyfriend and i have been together in a monogamus relationship for 2 years as of yeasterday...we generally always use a condom when we have sex, but halloween was the first day of my inactive week and since our anniversary was a couple days away we desided not to use one, one reason being that i have been takeing my pills at the exact same time daily for quite some time, and figured that i was almost on my period anyways so the likelyhood of ovulation was low. so we had sex twice that day without a condom...the next day i desided to take plan b (the morning after pill) just to be on the safe side because i hadent started my period yet. i took the second dose as instructed 12 hours later. then we didnt have sex again untill last night (our 2 year anniversary), again without a condom...tonight will be day 4 of my inactive week and still no period...im starting to feel a little crampy...so i think im probably going to be starting my period soon...but i have to admit im a wee bit nervious at the fact that im 4days late....considering that i usually start on day 1 or 2 of the inactive section or durring the last couple days of week 3 of my active section of my pack...(im trying really hard not to freak myself out...cuz i know that stress can delay your period)takeing into consideration that i took plan b a couple days ago, i just started a new type of bc pills, and iv been under stress lately...im sure that these things could certainly delay my period...but i would like to know what my likelyhood of pregnancy is...if i was pregnant, it wouldent be like the end of the world but it would really really really be best if that didnt happen right now...considering in not done with school yet.i would really apreseate your honest oppinons...but please i dont want lectures about useing condoms....or postes trying to scare me...thanks :),Curious

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    Curious2006

    my dear, if she is on the pill your chances have just shot down to as close to zero as humanly possibly.

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    Curious2006

    ok my bf and i had sex last month without a condom, (im on bc pills) but we generally always use condoms eventhough were in a long term monogamus relationship simply because of the pregnancy possibility. anyway we had sex w/o a condom and he finished inside of me, and i started my period right on schedual 2 days after that, and it lasted for the normal amount of time for me (5-7 days....anyway now im on my last week af active pills for my new pack after my last period....so my next period is do in about 5 days...i honestly dont think im pregnant, considering all of the factors and that my body is acting the same way it always dose right b4 my period (cramps, bloating, wanting chocolate by the bucket full...lol)...but i have been wanting to ask this since it first happened and i guess i just never ended up doing it...so anyways i guess my question is considering that im on bc pills, and have been steadily takeing them at the same time for the past 7months, and that i had a normall full period 2 days after we had sex...what do u think the likelyhood of pregnancy is in this spacific case? i would really apreseate your responces...thank you =)

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    Curious2006

    yes it is possible, but pregnancy is always possible when you have sex and have intact reproductive organs, i wouldent say your chance is not very high....but if you are really worried about it you could get her the morning after pill...hope this helps

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    Curious2006

    im a girl, just incase there was ne confusion...would my prostate be a problem even though im not a guy?...i think it might be that im tensening my muscles, the pain is less now when i orgasm, hopefully this will go away on its own.

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    Curious2006

    ok....when i orgasm i get a really sharp stabing pain on the right side of my abdomen. the pain starts to come on right when im getting close to orgasm...them it hurts like hell when im orgasming (it dosent effect the orgasm, that still feels good, but my abdomen hurts really bad if that makes any scence), but it pretty much imideatly subsides after i orgasm...it has been happening for the last week or so....has this happened to anyone else?....does anyone know what this could be?....should i be worried?.....do i need to go to the doctor?
    thank you

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    Curious2006

    thanks you gyes, i think i will get a weekly pill despencer...that will also work great for remembering to take all of the other meds im going to have to take wile on this trip. (like advil, there is gonna be alot of walking involved) thanks for all of your help....i have one more question though....security at the airport wont question me haveing a weekly pill despencer with unmarked medication in it?

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    Curious2006

    well as to why i cant bring it. one of my friends that is going on this trip doesent know im not a virgen. shes religious and has given me many a lecture on how big of a sin it is to have sex b4 ur married, and got really pissed when i told her my views on the matter. and in her own way she has told me that she would rather not know about anything sexual in my life. the fact that she believes all of this is fine with me. im a big believer in to each his own. i personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex if you are responsible about it and are willing to accept all of the risks that come with it.

    anyway...she dosent know, and im not planning on her finding out...cuz honestly she would blow a freakin gasget and probably tell people about it and probably would tell my parents aswell...(the only people that know about it are my doctor, and 2 of my friends that are very good friends who would never tell anyone, and like 2 of my bf's friends. any i dont keep it under raps because i am assamed of, i stand by my beliefs that there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are responsible. the reason i choose to keep it private, is 1)because roomers fly to quick in high school, and i dont want people haveing my private bussines to start roomers and gossip about and 2)once its out of my little circle of friends i have no control over who knows from that point on)..., not to mention want to kill my bf for "deflowering" her friend...she can be kinda crazy like that.

    anyhew she is going on this trip, and we r probably going to be shareing alot of stuff, so the possibility of her going threw my stuff and finding the pills is really high. and she would blow a gasget, the whole yelling screaming name calling thing.

    the 2 other reasons for this are 1) i dont want to risk it being a problm takeing it with me on the plane, like i dont want security to bring it up or have anything to say about it...cuz we are going to be in a big group the entire time and i really dont want 20 of my friends and classmates along with my favorite teacher....and i cant guarenty that wont happen and 2) there is a big time difference from where i live and where we will be for over a week. i take my pill at 9 o'clock on the dot every night, and i would have to take it at some backwards ass hour of the night...so i wouldent know when i should take it

    and to the question about my boyfriend, yes he is going

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