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    i didnt become their friend AFTER they were like that. ive been friends with them for 4-5 years..and just recently they turned all emo and stupid...and i really dont want to throw away 5 years of friendships becuase they are putting on an act

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    this is more of a reply to everyone..not just FaBMX. The thing is..i like black..so i'm not going to go out and buy new clothes..i love these people i just HATE what they are doing right now..and all its going to do is cause drama. I feel its my responsibility to do something about them since i'm friends with them, but i have no clue how to approach this, i dont want to just sit down somewhere and be like"hey stop being emo".and to the person who posted about satanism:thats fine, im not against any religion and i dont think mine is better than any.i just dont want people to think im a satanist.cuz face it.first thing that is going to come to peoples minds is that i talk to the devil and sacrifice poor cute little animals becuase im a badassrolls eyes.maybe 5% of people are going to think something besides that.i have a really good reputation at my school/work and around town..i dont want people thinking differently.i dont care what other people that im never going to see again think of me. but i dont want all of these people who respect me and a lot of people who ask me for advice to think that i cut myself and am emo and i worship the devil and all that craphopefully this helped clear my situatin up a bit, and thanks for all the relpies

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    alright..i dont consider myself "gothic" but i love black..always have. I don't go to hottopic and spend $60 for a pair of pants and another$40 for a shirt with a pentagram on it or anything..i wear normal clothes just most of which happen to be black.i am NOT depressed/sad/emo in any way. im probabaly the happiest person you will ever meet.I have all sorts of friends at school..not just one group.I wouldnt consider myself popular but im the person that everyone refers to as "oh shes the really nice girl". I'm not a satanist. I'm christian.I would never cut/hurt myself for attention.Im very outgoing/easy to get along with.I have a wonderful boyfriend and a great dad.I have plenty of money. I take care of myself(eating healthy,working out) So heres my problem. Since I have all sorts of friends..some of them are "gothic"..but lately they have basically turned EMO.it's not even funny.they act all depressed and cut themselves(they all have great lives by the way..its an act) and their"cool" thing to do now is wear all black make up and dress extra"freaky" and always have some sort of skull/spider web accesory on and its just embarassing being seen with them.i don't really care what people think of me but im not like them.so if im seen with them then everyone that doesnt know me assumes that im an emo depressed goth thats a satanist.i asked one of my friends why she turned emo all of a sudden and her reply was"im emo at heart..im just stuck in this fake body" and i was thinking "what the fuck"..ive built relationships with this certain group of people all through highschool..and i dont want to lose them becuase they are being stupid and acting like something they arent.i have had people come up to me at bakers square(restaraunt) when we took my friend out for her birthday and they all got up to go to the bathorom and i stayed at the table to wait for our food..well sure enough we had a new waitress and she asked the manager where the food went and he replied"thats the table with the little emo goth girl at it" he was referring to ME!!!!..

    i honestly dont know what to do anymore..they dont look like they'll be quiting their little act anytime soon
    HELP!

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    BAHAHAH!!! lets out snort..sorry that wasn't very lady like

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    This summer I've been trying to live ALOT healthier. I go running/walking everyday and usually do pilates and lift weights every other day.Besides just working out I've recently been thinking of adding some extra stuff to my routine. I bought green tea then went to GNC(health store) and bought these vitamins called Hair Skin & Nails, and I also have been taking One A Day vitamins for a few weeks now. I was just wondering if any of you that have used these products noticed a change in how you feel/look or if I'm wasting my money. Also, if any of you know of really good vitamins you've been taking.just as a side note: i RARELY eat junk food, i have a varied diet and I drink around 6-8 cups of water a day. I'm completely happy with myself except for the fact that my nails are extremely thin and I would like my hair to grow faster.So its not like i sit on the couch all day watching tv eating and im trying to drastically make myself better by taking these things.I would consider myself healthy.

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    Just tell her..say "I don't love you anymore, im sorry but i've been trying to tell you and you won't accept it.we're through.we aren't going out anymore" and if she throws a fit then tell her to grow up or you'll hang up

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    Not to get all religious or anything, but do you have a religion? If you do I say go find a girl who shares your religion..on the other hand if you dont then still try to find a girl thats either somewhat religious or has good morals.Im not saying that every other girl in the world is bad/cold-hearted..im just saying the likely hood of a girl who has strong morals and a good head on her shoulders isn't going to fuck you over(excuse my language)...and if you dont like the idea of that then go for a girl you think will treat you right.If your trying to pick up chicks at parties/bars and you see them flirting with everyone,chances are they arent going to quit afterwords and are going to do it while you're dating=they will cause jealousy problems. Go for the girls who seem more ..well i dont know how to put it...NON slutty.

    I wish you good luck

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    try palmers cocoa butter formula :grin:..it works like a charm after a few weeks

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    if it happens again you can go to Planned Parenthood www.plannedparenthood.com or look in the phone book(not sure if you live in the U.S or not..but if you do then your girlfriend can get the plan B pills there..no prescription..ive had a few accidents where condoms broke or slipped off and these pils have worked for me everytime

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    most pregnancy tests cant be accurate until about 5 days(i think..unless they made a new one)before the girls missed period

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    well if it makes you feel a little bit better..you posted on the 28th..(day you had sex) and you said she had her period about a week earlier..so if shes like most girls it takes about a month..so dont even worry if she gets her period until around the 22nd ..just becuase she had tender breats/other symptoms doesnt mean shes pregnant..us girls get symptoms of a period weeks in advance sometimes before it actually happend

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    sorry i think im getting everyone confused..i really dont know how to expain this any better though..the first day of her period is the first day the "cycle" starts...ovulation on average takes place around the 14th day(2 weeks after 1st day of period)..so im assuming she has about a one week period(7 days) and he said they had sex 6-8 days afterwards..7+7=14...so she might of very well been ovulating or close to it..thats why i wrote to BE CAREFUL and always use a condom..but there shouldnt be any worries i guess since he posted about her about to get her periodsorry, ill try to make any future posts clearer..sometimes im writing so fast that i dont usually stop and think if other people will know what im trying to say

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    BMI body mass index..do a google search on it..or they also usually do it at school(if youre still in school/have gym) and they pinch your arm and leg with this thing

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    AHHHH*scared face*!!! he sent me these along time ago..i didn't even think to check out what kind of person he was

    "From: Pony

    Have you ever experienced any accidents or bad odor problems. It just seems that the possibility is there. With all of thelub is tehre leakage afterwards? I am 8 inches with a 6 inch girth, how big is your bf? Is siaze a big issue for you ? Thanks for you reply! "

    From: Pony

    "Thanks for your help. We have tried anal twice and I had less problem getting started there. Sarah could take it or leave anal sex. It was very tight and I enjoyed it. Do you enjoy anal and what do you suggest to do to make it batter for her? "

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    well i mean more like..on average..girls ovulate 14 days into their cycle..and assuming she probabaly has a one week cycle like most girls do(give or take a few days) and he had sex about week after her period...then thats cutting it REALLY close to when she was probabaly ovulating

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    sorry this post is kinda late..but girls ovulate(on average) 14 days into their cycle..(1st day of cycle=1st day of period)..so her period probabaly lasted a week or so...plus the 6-8 days..thats around 13-15 days into her cycle...BE CAREFUL...and make sure she gets birth control or you guys use condoms...that's cutting it really close..besides the "timing" method isnt accurate..girls cycles change all the time

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    My problem is that i have extremely irritating periods..i know most people have the cramps..but instead of cramps(used to get them..dont anymore) i get REALLY bad stomach aches..like the kind where you constantly have to crap..and i get the whole freezing one minute burning up the next..and im sick of this..i spent my last period puking/crapping for a good 6 hours. Now i wouldn't be complaining about this but I miss school every month unless it happens on a weekend, and i keep having to call off work once a month. I'm thinking of getting birth control(im sexually active) and i was wondering if anyone has experience with relief from this kind of discomfort(the non stop stomach aches/vomitting). At the moment I've been using extra strength tylenol and pepto bismol..it helps a little for the vomitting but i can't get rid of these stomach aches.Thanks in advance for any replies

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    no i haven't been tested for allergies yet, but that was one possibility i thought of, since this whole problem did start awhile after i moved to a new city

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    i'll try to explain this the best i can. for the last year or so i am constantly losing my voice, and i know it's from mucus..it's like it never ends, ill make myself cough it up and my voice will be fine, then 15-20 minutes later i have more mucus to cough up...it's getting me really annoyed and I was wondering if anyone knows what this could be from (by the way I don't smoke).i was thinking do my tonsils have any part in this?(i never had them taken out)...it's really frustrating me..every morning when i wake up my throat sorta hurts too but then it goes away..any info would be appreciated,thanks

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