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    john123

    So a twist to the situation...

    I found out she has done COKE 3 times with this guy (2 months ago) hes a recovering drug user , in the military now to straighten him out...

    She said it was just there shes not gonna do it again but ya.... Now I know where all the lying came from...

    *stab stab*

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    john123

    Thanks guys, I am doing pretty well its just weekends that get me down because I know she is out partying and having fun without me. She is still a big part of my life and in my heart and I hope the best for her but its just crazy that she moved on sooo quick or so she says.. I am having a hard time even thinking about another girl..

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    john123

    My girl of 3 years fell in love (crush as she says) with another guy she knew when she was younger..Hes in the Military and just looking for sex but she thinks hes hot so that may work to his advantage.Relationship is done , she now goes out every night drinking and clubbing and lieing to me saying she is sleeping... Not to mention hanging with lots of guys from her work.I saw the best in this relationship and actually saw marriage, I felt so loved and gave all my heart to her. Its like talking to an addict now and a liar when I talk to her, Shes a different person.. Its insaneWell I will continue on hurting and growing stronger everyday. Please be careful guys, A relationship that you have second thoughts about , get out early , it just grows so much harder as time goes on..And also when your in a relationship , dont blow off all your friends for this one girl or guy... Because with me I did and now I dont have many people to go talk too and stuff. All the best.

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    john123

    Yea I know:(Im talking to her now and she says she doesnt think she did but then she talks about she may have blocked it out her life and forgot about it?Like what the fuk?

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    john123

    FireeI'm going through the same shit as you, its just how relationships end, the stress and anxiety is insane! Its soooo hard to deal with! I almost went to the hospital when this happened to me because my chest was hurting and I couldnt breathe well sometimes...Just get lots of friends to talk to and keep yourself busY! Please listen, Dont go back to it, it will just happen again (i know from experience)You are lucky it was so short of a relationship , and not married etc...

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    john123

    Before my girlfriend and I got together she had a one night stand (drunk) when she was 16. No Condom....We have been together for years now (3) and I know its going to sound stupid but I've sat back and thought about close calls we've had and remembered a few things that were kinda weird about pregnancy.One time we were all drunk with a bunch of friends and we were talking about Abortions (we were 16/17) and she jumped up and said " nope you dont need parents to be there, they dont need to know about it" and were like "wow how do you know? " and shes like "Ive had one!!!" were like WTF???? and then shes like "JUST JOKING" and laughed really hard..Why would she say this?Anyways fast forward to tonight, I asked her about it and said I was fine with it and I would love to help her through it if she needs me and if she did indeed have one done.She said No I havent.I asked her a few more times and mentioned what she said when she was drunk and shes like "well no I havent , i dont know why I said that I cant remember"Well then she said something that was weird (maybe I just asked so many times that she didnt know what to say)But she said " I guess the only way I could of did it was if it was one of those "tragic events where you just put behind you and loose memory of it"..Kinda weird if you asked me but then I again I asked alot of times so maybe she just said that because what else what she supposed to say, I was like not taking no for an answerIt really doesnt matter to me but I'd kinda like to know , ya know what I mean?Thanks guys

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    john123

    Im 20 and my girlfriend is 19, We have been togather for over 2 years now, I know shes not cheating now because we are togather alot and when we are apart we know exactly where eachother is..But the past I think she has cheated on me, The topic came up because I was talking to her friend as a fake person on a messaging system and she said "ya i know this girl who fucked two other guys, One in her hometown and one here in blah blah" Which makes exact sense because she went for a 3 week trip back to her hometown and was drinking ALOT when she was there, She admitted kissing another guy when she was drunk and I went nuts!So hence why I dont think she will tell me a DAMN thing now! How the heck do I find out, its killing me literally, I want to know if i have been her only one!Also lately I cant trust her because she has so many guy freinds (at work) so she goes to the bar with them and drinks alot, She promised me she wouldnt drink yesterday on there party day at work PROMISED , swore up and down on her grandfathers grave. And i picked her up and she was pissed drunk trying to act sober, and then today I found out on facebook that she indeed did, A guy friend said ""hhahaha your a funny drunk;)" Well I made her look totally bad, Maybe when I write it down like this I see everything and should get the hell out:(

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    john123

    Hello All., This is gonna be long...I'm a 19 year old male , I just made a huge move across canada to Edmonton Alberta for work and my girlfriend of 2 years had been posted (father in the military).I got my own apartment here in and just recently my girlfriend had moved in with me , now its just getting to repetitive, we wake up , we go to work, we come home we watch tv, eat and sleepWe dont really have much friends and our lives are feeling like they are going no where, she is really bummed out and I am aswell..We are finanacialy well right now , I am a first year apprentice mechanic, although Im making the choice to go on the oil rigs to make 90 thousand a year and she is going to move back home, I will be gone 2 weeks and back one week..I feel I am very established for 19 , having a place, bills, car, all paid for no debt and I have tried several career paths but I am still deciding but I keep quitting jobs, I just cant find anything I like, So my last bet is the oil rigs for 3-5 years to save up killer money and get into what ive always liked, real estate investing.. If this fails I have swore I will move back to Ontario..As far as everything goes its just all to much to handel, I dont have anything to look forward to, like in highschool, weekends, parties etc. now its nothing, Any suggestions? Help? haha.. I feel I am getting antisocial , things are getting worse..

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    john123

    God hope she doesnt find this post:PBut honestly my girlfriend of one year (who i will not break up with over this) just sucks at sex, we've talked about it and she admitted "im just not good"... we talk about everything..Anyways like I can spend 3 hours having sex with her but I'm 90 percent of time always on top of her just making her scream and making sex amazing for her, not to be cocky but I can last really long and by the sounds of it I think im decent but Im not enjoying it, I love it when shes on top, but she gets on top and then she says "your not liking it, im not doing it this way" and she always asks me what position I want , never can she just change into a different one she asks me and gets me to do it. I almost wanna blare music so we cant hear each other?I dunno I guess this is more of a rant then a question but what is there to do?:( What is some good things to say? She found one thing I like and thats (sorry to be specific) oral sex/balls) and im impressed but now thats ALL she does lol..Anyways, help!

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    john123

    dude the feeling doesnt change im 19 and my girl is 18 we've been togahter a year, she has had sex once (when she was drunk taken advantage of basically) and it still haunts meI feel like an ass but you know its how you feel, it wont change tho man:( its hardGood luck bro

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