When I insert a flexible dildo into my ass then I get a pressure feeling but not just when I insert it really deep but also when it's not that deep but only a few centimetres in it. Is this feeling normal? I cannot say if this feels good or not. It worries me a bit if this is normal or dangerous.
I mean maybe the feeling would get better if I just kept pushing the dildo in inspite of the pressure feeling but I dont really dare to.
but I've also watched amateur sex videos where they had anal sex and basically it was the same as in porn. The positions are the same and the men also do the same moves and also really fast. Does this mean that this kind of anal sex where you hump like there's no tomorrow is totally dangerous and in reality you'd have to move super slow!?
I mean I've watched videos where women supposedly had anal sex for the first time and usually the guy slowly sticks it in and then the girl moans a bit and complains but after a few minutes he's basically humping her really fast already.
I dont think that they think much about the risks of injury. It would also be interesting to know if an injury can simply happen in an instant without any prior warning pain or wether you'd first feel pain and then you could still stop. If you could just go in and out and when you go back in suddenly you're ramming your dick through the wall then it would be totally dangerous cause then there would be no warning signs at all.
I always thought that anal sex was basically safe when you take it slow and use lube. I also heard this in many documentaries about sex where they talked about anal sex.
But now I'm scared cause I read a few horror stories where people hurt their rectum through vibrators. Now I wonder how dangerous is anal sex in general?
I mean I have watched videos online where couples had anal sex and often times the males are pretty rough and they also don't take it slow but they are moving fast and inserting their penis from all kinds of directions into the rectum and the women also seems to have some discomfort.
My question is how can such a woman who is receiving anal sex basically tell if the discomfort is normal or if it's something serious? I mean is it possible that the male basically ruptures the rectum with his penis and the woman doesn't really notice it or if she notices it then it's already too late?
I also have no idea how hard it would be to damage the rectum with a penis or lets say a flexible sex toy which isn't solid. I mean how much force would this require? Would you first of all feel pain and then be able to stop right away before the rectum would really get damaged?
I hope someone here can give me some answers.
I experimented with a flexible anal dildo made of silicone it is about 7 inches long.
I used lube and inserting it was easy and then I tried to insert all of it. But I noticed that towards
the end, maybe the last 1 inch or so I noticed a resistance as if I was hitting an obstacle. I then
tried to "work" around it and insert the dildo in different positions (lying,standing,kneeling) but
the feeling was always there.
Now I'm scared what if I was hitting a curve in the rectum and I pressed the dildo against it?
What if I injured myself or ruptured something? On the dildo there was no blood I checked it.
I'm really scared now. I read a horror story where a man had a vibrator stuck in his rectum for days
and then died cause it ruptured his rectum! How can this be? I thought that dildos and vibrators
were safe for that use.