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    payner90

    Your post got me thinking Tangled, so I started a post with a question of my own. About what if the things I do in bed with my girlfriend are wrong or not normal because porn gave me the idea. Some smart person said that just because it was in porn doesn't make it wrong! Sex and all its acts has always been around before porn was a twinkle in some film projectionists eye, so just because its in porn doesn't always make it wrong.What do you mean about acting out though?

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    payner90

    Maybe get real good at being quiet at night then? :PSeriously though you might have to just take a chance doing it in the day instead and change your schedule, lock the doors lol!College is about change!I cant say I have personal experience, as in England you dont get shared dorms, its single rooms and everybody has a lock on the door!

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    payner90

    Thanks unsupervised that makes me feel a lot better! I suppose I'm too young to start worrying if things are normal/abnormal all the time! Whatever normal means!Well I always check and she's fine with it, and she's the most important person I should be checking with! I'm reminded of this picture though :http://www.zazzle.co.uk/leviticus_haircuts_tshirt-235047517137965796

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    payner90

    Ok I'm pretty sure by now I've watched a lot of porn and I'm wondering if its affected me. When I'm with my girlfriend and we have sex or oral sex or whatever (I'll spare the details) I enjoy coming on her belly, or her tits or her face. I'm just wondering is that normal or something I've picked up from porn?

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    payner90

    I honestly can't remember the first time I was exposed to porn. It might have been coming across arty pictures of nude women and me thinking this was porn. Or at my mates house when I was 10 and him showing me his dads stash!I feel like from since that day I have been very sexualised. Soon after I would try to find porn as much as I could, often taking hours but to no avail, it was always a very secretive obsession which I would never talk to my parents about, only my friends. Maybe because of this I have a certain view of women? I dont know if its influenced my sex life because to me its normal!

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    payner90

    Actors, what actors? Is this a metaphor thats lost on me?

    You can enjoy it in private without it being wrong.

    If it indeed was God who created us, then he had a reason for all our parts. Including that masturbation is pleasurable. He didn't make it feel good so that we had to ignore the pleasure! We can experience it and be happy!

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    payner90

    Personally I think its an incredibly healthy act, and is also very enjoyable! Its one of lifes great pleasures and is something which shouldn't be frowned upon! (Unless its in public lol) :P

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    payner90

    Although I could see how a Porn addiction, especially a long standing one which he lied to his partner about could ruin a marriage and make her want divorce. The need to continuously watch porn and find harder stuff does make people spiral out of control.There is no excuse for sexual assault though, ever. Never ever!

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    payner90

    Really? Thats a lot at a young age lol

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