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    phoebe

    I started going out with a this guy two months ago. We had been friends for a couple of months before hand and under the circumstances of us starting to go out I new he really liked me, in terms of he had a lot of respect for me. Now things seem to be changing. The last few weeks I have seen him once or twice a week for a couple of hours and we are talking less and less on the phone or via other communications. We were never suffercating each other and we both spoke about it in the beginning how important our individual lives were. Judging from his actions he seems ready to break up, but he also does other things contradicing this. He tells everyone we are going out, including just his own friends who I meet at my work and they know who I am, and I just think they are a customer. Everyone incluing my friends, his friends, his family and my family have told me how much they can tell he likes me. Am I being clingy for not seeing him more? I have approached him about it and he said he would improve but he hasnt made anymore effort since saying it.

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    phoebe

    use the pill and condoms please..... I didnt tell my mum when I was having sex but I started when I was 19. I was happy to wait though and used both types of contraception despite protest from my ex. 2 of my cousins though had children by accident. One was 18 when she got pregnant since she was only on the pill but the pill is really unreliable. It can eaily be effected my other medications and substances like antibiotics, assmar puffers and even a glass of wine. (which is how both of them got pregant, the other cousin was 28 though and was with a steady partner, BUT still even she made the mistake).

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    phoebe

    At the time I knew I was falling in love with my ex. We had only been together for a few weeks but it just seemed to work. It was a great night and I loved every bit about it. He told me months later when he was SOBER (so it was actually how he felt) that at the time he thought I was too easy and he was thought I was a slut after we had sex. I was shattered. He even thought I was too comfortable and because I didnt bleed he suspected that I had had sex before. He was an idiot!!!! I felt humiliated because it was my first time and I absolutely trusted him. I hate the fact now that it was with him. But I am glad I have the experience because I know I would be more comfortable now in a relationship and would be more careful as to who I have sex with. I think I am definately better off and I know I am not just going to marry the next guy I go out with.

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    phoebe

    I know what you mean, but I think it is so not worth it. Plus I wouldnt want the extra nerves to be cut away. I dont sleep around though. I do have sex with partners but I would only have sex with someone who I was emotionally invested in as well. It kind of keeps me stay in check with my morals though. If I could have had sex with a guy and I wanted to but I knew emotionally we werent there yet, my embarrassment would still be there about how my lips look. Since I am embarrassed I am immediately uncomfortable and know I dont want him there. Its like of like the saying a women doesnt shave her legs on a first day to avoid that haha

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    phoebe

    ask her is she considering going back out with her ex again. Instantly you will know if she is interested in you or not cause if she is going back with him, well then the answer is obvious. Is she asking to spend more time with you, messaging you back, NOT calling you friend every couple of days? I'm really friendly with my guys friends but i like to mention friend every now and then to remind them that there is nothing more, in the beginning anyways. also what kind of hints and what were her responses?

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    phoebe

    yeah thats a pretty horrible bank, can you close the account for freeze it?btw maybe you should chanel your sexual urges into something else for a while, to help distract you. It can be anything, kind of like 40 days 40 nights.

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    phoebe

    sounds like you have a cool mum to do those things with. My mum has asked us to do gardening. ok yes that might not seem like much but she wants a working bee weekend and we have a huge beyond huge garden. So we love her and am going to do it

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    phoebe

    you are disgusting. cant believe you are still on this site

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    phoebe

    excuse me but what exactly did she do to make you think that the girlfriend is cheating. Don't tell him to first of all do soemthing drastic that he has said no to. Ande secondly tell someone to act to inhuman as sleeping with someone and then dumping them. That is something which really shouldnt be encouraged on this website. I think she is stress and is just dealing with it difficutly. I hope it gets better for you. Act on what you feel not what people who dont know the whole situation.

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    phoebe

    lol so I am going to downsize it. How do guys and girls stay friends and only friends

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