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    In reply to: I am sixteen years old, and have been waking up each morning with an erection that lasts about a half hour each day for a few years now. But for the last three months, I've been getting LOTS of them all the time in addition to waking up with one. Each time it lasts a good ten to twenty minutes, and I often get them each hour. It feels like my penis is erect more than it is soft. This has been extremely UNCOMFORTABLE no matter what I am wearing. And I've never liked getting these erections, even when I was a child. And it is also extremely embarrassing too, because people can see it even though you try to hide it. And lately I get them whenever I have to take my pants off such as for changing or for going to the washroom, and when taking showers. In school, we are required to take a shower after phys-ed class, and I feel embarrassed because my penis doesn't look like everybody else's as it is always erect. And I have heard some of the students teasing me about it. Does anybody know what I can do about these involuntary erections, tell me what causes them and when they will go away. My dad says if I'd start masturbating more often when I wake up or before I go to sleep, it might go away, but I'm not sure. I believe the cause is having a penis. And puberty of course. Penises do that. It's normal for teenager guys especially and sometimes people call it those raging hormones of teenagers. I had boners all the time in classes in Junior High, and my penis would get so hard and long that it snaked down my pants leg in an obvious and very persistant 7" long log or bulge, but they decreased in the last few years of high school. I saw a few other guys get them too, and generally nobody says anything or seems much to care.The cure is generally to get older, or get married. I wouldn't worry about masturbating at night, as I am not so sure it helps. Maybe just stimulates it all the more?I don't think I ever teased anybody for having an erection, as it is best to just ignore them, and they seem rather normal anyway, as long as the person isn't trying to show off or anything.Penises get hard, because they have new feelings and to try out their new function, and to remind us to marry and of our duty to reproduce and enlarge the human race, so that all the more people may enjoy living.

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    Why should it even be an issue?While I don't mind if somebody glances at my penis in some socially acceptable place where they can't help noticing, like public showers, I don't feel I am there to put on a show for them, nor to necessarily compare favorably to their size. Why should everybody need to know that I can get a 7" erection? Every male has a penis, and they all sort of look a little weird. Big deal.And of course it helps that my penis isn't usually shriveled for long anyways.

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    I was wondering if you had a boner for a whole hour would it hurt the guy?


    No, it wouldn't hurt the guy. Boners are self-perpetuating, as they feel so good they stimulate sexual arrousal. Thus, boners not only embarrassingly bulge, but can be rather persistant, refusing to go down for a while until they wear themselves out and relax.

    And I think the dangers of restricted blood flow are being exxagerated. Considering that my arm can go numb from restricted blood flow in a matter of minutes, and yet I can be hard for an hour or so, and not be numb, some blood is probably getting through. I get boners, but not blue balls.

    But while a boner lasting an hour is probably fairly common, a 4 hour boner generally isn't, so that may be a serious medical concern, as they say? Although I think guys can be hard, on and off, all night, without it being a problem nor hurting.

    And I would see boners as an untimely reminder of our human duty to reproduce. Penises are designed to get hard, so it isn't surprising that they sometimes do so, even at inconvenient times. Boners are one of the cool facts of life, to remind us to someday get married and reproduce.

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    I thought most anything makes guys hard.You know like having a full bladder, a warm day, having a dick?Humans are so horny, because we were meant to become populous.

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    In reply to: The summer I turned 16 I went to church camp in New York State. We chartered a greyhoud type bus. Of course I didn't masturbate the entire week, and I don't remember how long it had been before I went. Anyway, I was sleeping on the way home and started having a pretty hot dream. I woke up realizing I was having an orgasm! Wet dream on the bus! With kids all around me. Fortunately, I don't believe anyone noticed. Yeah, sleeping seems to be one of the common causes of erections. So to is riding a bus. I hear having a penis is prone to cause erections too.I wouldn't think anything of seeing somebody get a boner on the bus while asleep, because the movement of the bus, tiredness, dreams, a full bladder, anything, could be making a young guy hard, and he may not even know it. Just let the person sleep and say nothing. I can't recall seeing anybody get hard on a bus, because you can't really see all that many people anyways.I recall when I was younger, getting really hard on the bus, but then nobody could tell as the bus is often one of the easiest places to hide erections. I often got boners in class too, and having a big 7" penis, I think a couple of people may have noticed the long, stiff, very persistant, bulge that quickly grew down my leg and would not go down for some time. Sometimes even the oozing precum might have spotted just a little. But normally people wouldn't say much or think it any big deal, and I saw a few classmates get hard-ons in class on a few occasions. Nobody seemed to let on if they had noticed though. A cabin-mate at my summer camp got really hard in the showers, but nobody said anything or seemed to care.And yeah, most people on a bus are probably looking out the windows or sleeping themselves, to pay much attention to anybody else.

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    In reply to: I knew someone who had been sexually abused, for whom nudity was therefore always bad. He saw a picture in an art book, a painting representing heaven, and couldn't understand how people could be naked in heaven. I recall something about somebody said we would be wearing white robes. So maybe people won't be "naked" in heaven after all?

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    In reply to: Alright heres a question for the guys, what can a girl do that turn on you on the most in bed, me and my boyfriend are very sexually active, but I want to know what I can do to please him more Marry him first, and then want to have his babies.If that scares him off, then he probably wasn't worth having to begin with, and he might not make a very mature or responsible father.I would think sex more exciting, when pregnancy considered to be a "desirable" outcome.After all the temporary "high" of sexual orgasm, really only lasts for a few short minutes anyways. And there's far more to life than having sex all the time. Children is of far more lasting value.

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    In reply to: I knew someone who had been sexually abused, for whom nudity was therefore always bad. He saw a picture in an art book, a painting representing heaven, and couldn't understand how people could be naked in heaven. That's a good point, I hadn't thought much about. I suppose people could be naked in heaven, because there would be neither shame nor sin, and people would once again be innocent and rather unaware or uncaring about their nakedness, as Adam and Eve were in the Garden of Eden, before they sinned.I thinked nakedness often represents vunerability and openness and exposure, something that makes us feel uncomfortable if we are around people who we don't trust. A sinful perverted society would also tend to make more people uneasy about being naked around strangers. Also, since people become as the angels in heaven, not given in marriage (and no longer able to reproduce?), there wouldn't be any of the arousal issues anymore.I thought it a little strange when I saw in the movie, Left Behind, that the people who were raptured off to heaven suddenly, had left their clothes lying behind. Some woman was worried about where her husband had gone, and thought he was naked, because his clothes had collapsed onto his airplane seat. Then after a few minutes, a mass panic broke out when it dawned on people that a bunch of people on the airplane, had mysterious gone missing. On the ground cars crashed, after suddenly having no drivers. The world tried to explain it away with bizarre theories about alien abductions or some ecology thing or something. But I thought this interesting movie, a fictional account of how future Biblical endtimes might play out, was on track, as I read in the Bible that when Jesus was resurected, he left his burial clothes behind. And clothes are a rather artificial covering, and not really part of us.So it seems about right, that people could be naked in heaven. And imagine if you were the only one to show up in clothes? Now wouldn't that be strange?

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    In reply to: I am 14 years old i am about 5'10" 150 lbs deep voice can grow a mustache but not a beard pretty built. Penis is 6 1/2 inches long do you think my penis will grow any more? please answer me You are already slightly above average for an adult male, so no need to worry if you are done growing. Yes, it may still grow some more, which would be cool, as human penises can sometimes get even bigger, but it probably won't grow much more. It might get a little thicker too. Most guys are fairly mature men, biologically, by around age 14, I think.

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    In reply to: Yes... All you kids. Get married at 14,15,16 and then you can have sex and kids and fill this planet with more wonderful people. Actually, people not long ago, did get married that young, and still do in many countries, and a major reason was to prevent things like sex outside of wedlock.14 may be a little "young" to get married in America, but you can legally marry at least by age 18, and younger with parental permission. There was a guy at my old Church who was just 18 when he married, but she was just 17. Everybody thought they were old enough, and not to worry about society's young age prejudices.Puberty is coming earlier, and yet people procrastinating marriage longer than ever, meaning people have to wait decades for sex. Is that really realistic? People should still be virgins when they marry, not having gave pieces of their soul to another, so why can't more people be encouraged to marry younger, if they are ready and know who they should marry.And yes, a reason for younger marriage, would be to have more time to conceive more children, and to fill the world with more wonderful people. Check out Psalm 127:3-5. It says that large families are good, and verse 4, is referring to marriage at a young age. And Genesis 1:28, 9:1 actually does say for people to be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth. And lest you think that is a misinterpretation, check out Proverbs 14:28. It says that large populations are good. I have often thought so, as the #1 population concern should really have been that more and more people would be glad to live, a cool reason why large families should be encouraged worldwide.

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