@helenharry Welcome to A2A. We don't have any formal "friending" process as some of the social media websites do. We try to be friends to all who visit the site, whether to ask for help or to give it. So, again Welcome.
@faner What you are doing with your cousin could be sexual abuse. The fact that he is your cousin doesn't matter, but the fact of the difference in your ages does. Find someone your own age and
Stop the sexual stuffwith him.