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    rushdude

    I have talked to her face to face but it wasnt really awkward. I dont know how to explain it. There were other people around, and thats what I think the problem was. We havent been with each other with just us.

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    rushdude

    Only that I may of chased after her a little too much. I think she may me nervous/scared. I dont really know.

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    rushdude

    Well, yesterday when I tryed to text her she kinda gave me the cold shoulder. I think I may be chasing after her too much so I have decided to just not talk to her for the weekend, I think she may need some space or something. So I'll wait till atleast sunday night to try and talk to her.

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    rushdude

    I wasnt really planning on it. I thought maybe she was but I think its more that she is just nervous. I just feel weird always asking to do something.

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    Ok. I am prolly over reacting or being impatient here but I figured I would ask of your opinions on this. Basically I have been talking to this girl recently, I like her and she likes me. We have seen each other in person but both of us were pretty nervous and in different crowds so it was a little awkward at the times. I got her number though and we have been texting everyday for a week. Some days we texted for over 12 hours straight. I asked her if she wanted to do something over the weekend and she told me that she was busy which she actually was, and that she was going to be busy till school started. When saturday came around she ended up not doing what she had to do and kinda insinuated that she wanted to do something but like disquised it but I was in no position too. I was still in my work clothes and was over a friend's house at the time. I opened up to her the other night about some stuff and she did back but the past 2 days she hasnt seemed to interested in talking. She like takes longer between texts and stuff. I asked her what she was doing after school tomorrow and she ignored it and just answered the other part. I talked to one of her friends on sunday and was told that she definitely really was busy and that she likes me a lot. Quoting her friend I was told "I'm in". I was also told that if i asked her out she would prolly say yes and that was even before we talked. So I dont know what to think. Im gonna guess that she is just nervous but at the same time im nervous too. I just see it as something we will eventually have to get past for something to work out. I also dont like asking people to do things often. Its just the way I am and I have tryed to arrange something about 3 times already. So should I wait for her to make an attempt or what? Will she come out and say something?

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    rushdude

    I dont want to go to jail and I dont have those intentions but according to what I read in the above it actually is legal, or am I wrong? I'll prolly just wing it and see how things go. And if her parents had a problem i would just tell her that she should listen and respect what they say as simple as that. I also had another concern if something did happen. If she were to hide it or lie to her parents, what should I do?

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    rushdude

    I know what you mean and Im not at all like that. I know some would but that would haunt my dreams if i did something like that.Here is the link where I got my info on the laws from:http://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=337647Sorry if its against the rules to post a link to another forum. It was just that the people there had the same interpretation as I did.

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    Im doing a state program for school which basically gives me 2 years of community college for free and if I maintain the same grades and such at the community college I'll be able to go to a state school for free also like tcnj or rutgers. I glanced at the nj laws a few months ago for something with school and from what I understood of it was that once one reaches 16 years of age they may have sex with any aged person as long as it isnt a situation of the older one taking advantage of the other like incest, parent guardian, teachers, and such. And for those 14 and 15 nj allows a 4 year difference. This seemed odd to me so i may look into it later.I wasnt really going to push for anything, it was just that I wanted to know if I should continue to distance myself from her due to the age thing cuz I know she really likes me a lot and since i kinda do back i could see where it could go. I think i may just talk to her when i see her and see what happens and i dont want to seem weird or mean either so that seems like the best option.

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    I dont really post here that often but I just wanted a few opinions on this. I wanted to know what people thought is the biggest age gap between teens dating I guess. About a month ago i met this girl at a best friend's family party. I talked to her for a little bit and found out later that she liked me but along with that i found out that it was one of his sister's friends, I thought she was a cousin or something. She just turned 15 and I just turned 18. I saw her again yesterday mini-golfing and for the second time I had no idea that she was her, as she looked my age. I dont know if she really just matured faster or im just attracted to her but she looks older than she is. I asked my best friend what he thought, and he thought that the differnce was too great. And I asked my friend last night when i drove her home what she thought and she told me she thought it was fine if she was 15 cuz for some reason she thought that she was 14. She said no if she was 14. I just want more opinions on this as I have thought myself that 2 years is the biggest gap I would go but when I see her it make me contradict myself.I have also had other things to deal with and hadnt really had a chance to become closer with other girls throughout highschool if that makes a difference.

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