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    skipboshvc

    alright heres the situation...i was circumcised at 19 about 2 weeks ago and hav had some time to just chill and talk on msn. well, befor this happened i was kinda hittin it off with my exgirlfriend who i only went out with for a few weeks about 2 years ago. we had made out a few times and she gave me one handjob to my uncut dick during a drive so she never even saw it. talkin on msn i can tell she wants me and im thinkin bout hookin up wit her for a bit (after im all healed up of course!), tho im not sure if this relationship will go very far. thing is that i had the circumcision done very discreetly, told only my parents and dont want anybody else to know (even my siblings). i have a couple of friends that may not squeal to others about it, but i wouldnt trust anybody with this info. tho i doubt that this will works, do you think i would be able to pass off that i had always had a circed dick and that she had just imagined it? I would trust this girl not to say anything while im with her, but if we broke up i believe she would tell others about 'the change' (didnt end on good terms last time). personally, i think if people who didnt know me well and heard that i had an adult circ through the grapevine would think that this is odd and that im odd for it. i think id probly be laughed at behind my back sort of a thing. thats why i want to keep it on the downlow. anyway, if i wasnt in this situation i would def start seein this girl again. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

    GIRLS...if you heard a dude was circumcised as an adult...would you look at him differently? turn you off?

    GUYS...im not dumb to the fact that many dudes would make a big deal of this and id end up bein the butt of many jokes becuz of this, tho im sure thers many mature guys who wuldnt

    thanks for the responses

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    skipboshvc

    hey man thats a tough situation to be in.. and i do know. my dad is addicted to diablo, sad thing is i started him on it but had no idea that it would turn into such an addiction. we both started playin about 7 years ago, i quit after a about 4 months and hes been playin it to this day. the thing with him is that he works a lot so hes not constantly playing it, but after work thats pretty much all he does. hell go out with our family whenever we do and for the most part hes a good dad. both me my sister live at home, but ill be going of to college in few months, so i see him doing nothing else once we leave (parents do not have the greatest relationship). he has many times stayed up very late at night playing this game and then seems very grumpy and sluggish later. we have also all expressed our opinions to him and he has mostly ignored them. im not sure thers much we can do to get him to stop completely but have done other things. we changed the location of the computer to the main floor, so that he is always available to family whenever hes needed and he feels more a part of the family just by being in the same general area. the other one is still a work in progress, but this is the best bet at getting one off of their addiction. you have to get them hooked on something else. sports, building, gardening, etc. getting her out and about. maybe ask her to do some of these things together and maybe she will continue them. get her to join some clubs/make friends, get her to enjoy things outside of the computer game. anyways thats my two cents and i hope all will work out for the best and dont give up it just takes time!

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    skipboshvc

    lol i wasnt given a followup appt but i called the doctor today and he said that my frenulum was not cut (even tho i told him to do that). i said i was worried that frenulum would be too tight but he said that it would not be a problem (why - did he cut it partially? or did he just figure it would be fine?...probly should have asked those questions lol). im still confused as to whats going on! so im GUESSING that the frenulum was partially cut or something/loosened somehow i dunno. can anyone tell from those pictures? why is there so much stitching and scabbing if the frenulum wasnt cut? is it better to have the frenulum then not? will it make a difference for my sex life? do girls like it better when the frenulum is left there/is it more appealing? what if i find that i dont like the frenulum/partial frenulum, can i get it removed? will it look really odd since ive had two procedures on it? so many questions lol...the earliest i can get appt with him is july so u guys r my only hope to get them answered lol

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    skipboshvc

    Alright, these links show what i am trying to explain. Warning: the pictures are not pretty! You will notice the piece of frenulum sticking out (along with a stitched up protruding skin along the underside). These are all pictures of my penis about 64 hours after the circumcision (over 3 days). circ1 circ2 circ3circ5 circ6 circ7 circ4

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    skipboshvc

    the doctor did not give me a follow-up appt. and i cant see him until july (3 months away!). That's why im very worried and resorting to posting this cuz i just want to make sure this is normal (im really hoping it is...). So for anyone that has been circumcised as a teen or adult and anyone in a medical profession, i would apreciate your help. If you need a picture I will post it if it helps better explain what is going on (tho I do not know how to set it up through a link).

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    skipboshvc

    OK so I was just circumcised three days ago at the age of 19 (my foreksin wouldnt go back during erection). No bandaging or dressing was applied, although I moisturize with vaseline everyday. The doctor had never asked what kind of circumcision I wanted (high/low, tight/loose) so I figured he would just make the determination. However, I had always felt that my frenulum was a little short and told him that I wanted that to be cut (thats the only thing I said regarding my circumcision). There was quite a bit of bleeding after and it is now all scabbed up around the incision line and where the frenulum was. There is definetly stitches at the back along where the frenulum was also. However, my problem lies with the piece of frenulum that remains. A piece of the frenulum sticks OUT of the underside of my penis. The piece stems from the tip of the penis (where the piss comes out...dont know what else to call it) and travels to the underside of my penis (sticks out just as the glans ends) , where there is a protruding line (sticks out from the rest of the penis) of skin/scab/stitch formation. This looks extremely weird and have never seen anybody with a circumcised penis have a piece of the frenulum sticking out. What is up with that? Is this piece eventually going to heal onto the underside of the penis and not stick out? How long does that take?I has only been 3 days so I am banking on that this will heal differently as time goes on. Otherwise, I would rather go in and have another operation than have it look like this. It is really hard to explain what it looks like. Am i allowed to post a picture on here?Thank you for your help!

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