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    Sigh. One day I hope you'll understand.

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    You should be cookin' her breakfast after sleeping with your sorry asses. :wink:

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    It means... you got a taste of your own medecine. Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts. It's best to tell people you're getting involved with if you're not into a relationship situation. Then they can decide if that's what they want too, and if it is, both parties are happy and nobody's hurtin'. Peace.

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    Wow! Really dug reading that.

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    Don't let those who matter the least have the most effect. Why possibly screw up your life, piss off your GF, look like a jealous, insecure goof? Just make him look pathetic in front of your GF/other people, but do it intelligently and you'll look like the bigger man. He's not even worth bustin' out a sweat for!!!

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    I can suggest a really great skin cleanser that's cheap and works with or without water. It's called Cetaphil and it's gentle enough to use a.m./p.m. Neutrogena also has a decent line of men's skin-care products.

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    I've had knee problems for years and I find that stretching first thing in a.m. and whenever I get the pain really helped me. If your muscles are tight, especially around the knee, they can pull it out of balance and cause pain. Knees are a funny joint, since we became bipedal, the old body had to adapt and the way our knees are, is not the most stable joint. Also, have you tried taking ibuprofen? It will help with pain or inflammation. Icing it for 15 minutes too can help with both of those too. Good luck.

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    What about combining a business degree with some type of computer/technical training? As for the student loans, it's absolute hell paying them back once you're finished school. When you're trying to get a job in your field and face the possibility of having to relocate as well, 6 months feels like no time at all!!!!I agree with everyone else who advised you to get scholarships. There are also lots of bursaries too which you wouldn't have to pay back. Check it out at the schools you're interested in, they will usually have a whole file of the ones available to you. Good luck.

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    The term straight-edge has been around for at least 20 years in the punk scene. It basically refers to someone who doesn't drink, do drugs, party too hard etc. As far as a "straight-edge personality" who knows what that means????? No nasty emotions?????

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    Don't want to argue semantics. What I am trying to get across is that mixing the words/conceps of rape and sex is something that many people would like to see change, ESPECIALLY rape survivors. I know someone who was gang raped with a broom handle and that is not sex. Do you see what I mean???? Sure, that's penetration, but it is not sex. And as for laws, look at science/politics, it's not a static situation. Again, don't want to argue or put anyone down. Just want you to think about what I am saying before shutting me down. I don't want this girl whose first experience is rape to be associating that with sex for the rest of her life.

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    Keep your blinders on why don't you. At least I prefaced my words with "in my opinion".

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    Everyone is "worth it" that's all I mean. Many people do innappropriate or hurtful things out of low self-esteem. The better we all feel, the better we will all be. Yeah, might sound cheesy but I believe that.

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    I don't like to call it sex because it's not about sex. It's a violation and it's about someone trying to have power over another human being.

    Sex is between two people while rape is someone inflicting their sickness upon someone else. You can say you've "had" sex while you can't say you've "had" rape. You've "been" raped, big difference.

    IMO, it makes it harder for rape survivors to heal and have healthy sexual relationships after the attack if what happened to them is called "sex". Whether you add the word "unconsensual" in front of it or not, rape is not sex.

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    Hi, Just wondering if anyone else out there has epilepsy. I was only diagnosed a few years ago and still have a lot of unanswered questions. I'd love to be able to find out more, especially about other people's symptoms, reality etc.

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    Only you can work on that. I wish you well. You are worth it.

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    not really sure which one is my favourite but I love Eric and John Cleese.

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    I just thought it was sad that you wrote "girlfriend= more stress + less money"

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