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    stan_apollo

    Hello all,Just wondering what exercises I can do at home (without weights for now, I might get some after christmas) to help build up my upper body. I'm talking things like push-ups and what not.Any advice?

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    stan_apollo

    No, I wish I hadn't lost it with the person I did.The relationship lasted 3 months, she was too openly sexual right from the start, and I stayed with her and lost it after I found out she cheated. Terrible move.I was also under pressure from everyone at school thinking I was some sort of sexual wierdo. There were rumours being spread that I had some sort of freakish sexual fantasies, and since I'm the quiet reclusive type, everyone believed it, and I felt I had to prove I had a normal sex life.Wasted it? Yes.Regret it? Yes.Nothing I can do about it now though, except try and forget it.

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    stan_apollo

    I wont vote because I'm male, and I'm pretty sure this topic is just aimed at women, but from what I've noticed, most people both male and female are self-concious about their breasts. I think it's just one of those things where everyone's are different, and I think that brings about a lot of self-confidence issues because people often feel they have "odd" breasts compared to others.

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    stan_apollo

    She's not worth it. If she wont put the effort into her own life, how's she gonna put effort into this relationship? She doesn't sound like she's about to change, and you don't sound happy, so leave her and move on, you don't need this crap.

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    stan_apollo

    It doesn't surprise me, there's so much terrible stuff in hentai. Personally, I hate anime style stuff, so games like that piss me off regardless of the content.But more to the point.It's human nature to be curious. Anyone who's ever been curious as to what is actually appealing about raping some poor girl, or curious as to how bad that game is, might buy it, download it, watch it etc. And the last thing we need is people exploring that part of their sexuality within a game environment and developing a fetish for rape.

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    stan_apollo

    Christ, thats an aweful thing to have to deal with. You did well to end the relationship. Hope things start looking up for you soon.

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    stan_apollo

    End it and don't tell her. It will spare her feelings, your trouble, and to be honest you're not even sure you're in a relationship with her so why go to the effort of "coming clean" about it?On the other hand, what you did is wrong if you consider the threesome "cheating". End it on a friendly, vague basis, and move on. You might care for her, but at the end of the day you're the one in the wrong and the one who needs to learn from the mistake, she needs someone who won't go off shagging people at a doctor who convention.If you really care about her, let her go and leave her ignorant.

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    stan_apollo

    I wouldn't rant at her willingly, I'm just worried if this keeps getting to me I'll end up doing it. Obviously this guy is the one I'm mad at, but I don't go to her Uni and I'll probably never meet him. Even if I did, surely ranting at him would just make her think I'm a controlling git.Same goes for telling her not to get into these kinds of situations. How can I get her to do that when I'll just come across controlling? I think she's already bothered that she can't seem to get any guy friends because they all just hit on her and then go completely cold on her when she mentions me.I don't know if there is a solution, I just need a way of venting this annoyance and frustration.

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    stan_apollo

    I've already posted about this before but I dealt with it for a while. In a sentence; girlfriend at uni who I see once every 2-3 weeks keeps getting hit on.I keep trying to deal with it in the "she's going out with me, it doesn't matter because she wont do anything about it" way, but it still gets to me.Like tonight she said some guy in one of her classes who she'd talked to for an hour or so started hugging her, and his hand "slipped" and he didnt move it.I dont know, I'm a wrathful person and I'm not sure why, and this really pisses me off. I dont want it to build up and make me rant at her, because then I'm the bad guy, but I really don't know how to get rid of this "under the skin" feeling. I'm the least violent person you can think of, but I feel like hitting something right now.Any help?

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    stan_apollo

    I'm a guy, and heavily sympathise with you. My gf moved an hour away to start University life, and I was paranoid for quite a few weeks about the guys there. I trust her completely, but the idea of guys hitting on her and getting some satisfaction from interacting with her sends my jealousy levels through the roof.I'd be pissed or very pissed if she did any of the things you're mentioning, especially in my prescence.If it happened, I'd hate myself for it but I'd tell her it was winding me up and let her know I was upset. Otherwise it's gonna keep happening and getting you down. Just be sure not do get overprotective or hysterical, just calmly tell her it upsets you and let her deal with it.Best.

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