The other day me and my girlfriend were having sex and every 10 minutes shed say stop and i did but she wouldnt tell me why. 5 minutes later shed let me again and then tell me to stop Although she sounded like she was enjoying it. This happened three times and at the end she still wouldnt tell me what was going on?
I am new to this so am i doing something wrong?
I have a problem
You said your new at this, so could it be that your gf is new at it also? If she is it could be that it's a little painful for her. The first few time for a women can be a little painful ya know, but I'm sure some of the women on here could answer this better than I, so I leave it to them.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
If she wouldn't tell you what's going on, then we wouldn't have a clue either.