ive seen some posts about this topic but none answere dmy question so i decided to post agian. ive been wanting to ask one of my friends if he was open enough to try some kind of a circle jerk or whatever its called, but i dont know how to ask, im afraid he might get angry or think im wierd or call me a fag or sumthin. how can i go about finding out if he would be up for it? :confused:
With a friend?
Only way to know is to start up a conversation. You gotta be really careful - for all the reasons you mentioned. Starting up a chat about sex, or having some porn around may be one way to talk about masturbation, then about who he'd do that with or how he feels about it.
Dude,That is a tough question. Only you can answer it. You know your friend better than we do. Like Lance suggested. I would be careful. I got to do it with my friend after having a sleepover and we talked about girls, girls specific body parts, looked thru some girly magazines, and then watched some of my brother’s hard core XXX porn,He was also my best friend. He just wasn’t some dude that was on my wrestling squad who looked really hot and I wanted to see him naked. Make sure you know this person and your good friends before you try something. It could and will turn ugly…It can be a lot of fun, but be careful about your approach and execution. It has to feel like it a spontaneous thing, not something that has been plotted and planned out. Good luck and let us know what happened.
Like Roc and Lance said, make sure its someone you can trust. Start off taking about porn watching togethor, talk about jacking off while watching porn, maybe jack off togethor while watching porn, then if all things are going well maybe jack him off while watching porn. Proceed slowly and carefully and feel him out about it, as you proceed, but don't make it planned.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.