Question to other girls

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HI, i'm 13 and new here and have a question about something.My mom won't buy me thongs and dosn't want me to wear them. she dosn't like them and thinks there not good but I really wanted to try them. I think they look so much better then whet she buys me. So i went to the store and bought a pair without her knowing it.My question is, what is the right way to wear the back of them? Do you let the string part just rest on your cheeks or do you pull it between so it rides along the hole? Sorry if it sounds like a dumb question but I can't ask my mom cause she would be really mad if she knew I had them.Thanks, Amber.

quick question. do you do your own laundry then?

I hide them so she cant find them and I wash them myself. the tag says to handwash them so thats what I do.

Thus the term, "butt floss". :grin:

As the other girls said, the string goes between the butt cheeks.

You'd better not let your mom see the elastic hanging out of the top of your jeans.

>>>"As the other girls said"

Yes, us girls :open_mouth:, Steve, Helms, gundam and myself no all about girls "butt floss".

Any slightly more feminine girls care to comment? :grin:

between your butt checks, hence butt floss, ass candy, however if you ever let the top show out of your jeans, your mom I'm sure would get on your case. 13 is too young in my opinion to be wearing them anyway... 13 is an innocent age....

Personaly, I always thought they were just udnerwear.sexier? eh, in some cases but whats a 13 year old girl need to be sexy for?I know my oldest soon to be step daughter, is 13. She has them as Iv seen em in the laundry on weekends when shes been here. Her mother doest like it at all, that I can attest to.

See two more great female opinions...lol

**Im sorry, but i agree with your mum. What the hell do you want to wear thongs for, if not to attract the WRONG attention............I won't be letting my daughter wear thongs at 13, and beleive me im no prude. **

thanx for all the help. And I want to wear them because they look better than the plain white ones my mom gets me. she dosnt even want me wearing silky ones, all the ones she gets me are cotton. it seems like im the only one with thm in school.All the other girls in gym class have nice cute panties and thongs, so I wanted some too. And I do like the way they look and feel over the other ones.My mom hasnt seen them yet, I make sure she cant see them when Im wearing my pants or dresses.

All the other girls in gym class have nice cute panties and thongsThe times are changing.

So your just doing it cause other people are?

sort of. I see them with cute underwear and i want to see what they feel like. is there something wrong with that? my other friends have them and like them and told me i should try them. And Im glad i got some I think they r much better then the plane white brief ones my mom gets me.

Compromise with mom, see if she will let you pick out your own underware as long as she approves of them. Then go get some colored cotton jockeys, then later on move to some bikini cotton jockeys. That's what my wife wears most of the time. She thinks they're more comfy than anything else and I think they are plenty sexy. Would mom go for that?

I will have to ask her but I would hope so.
she also buys me my bras and gets me really ugly ones that don't fit all that great, but she says they are best for me and I dont need "sexy" bras and panties.

You need bras that fit properly. You should go to a store and get fitted by someone who knows what she's doing, rather than by your mom. The "sexy" part is besides the point. Tell your mom she should be happy that you wear a bra at all.

she has made me wear one since I was 8. I started to grow fast and young, im already in a B cup and sometimes it fells like its to small.

Forcing you to wear a too-small bra won't keep you as a little girl. You have to get your mom to let you get measured, or go to a store yourself and have it done.

Steve is right and you could use the size thing to your advantage. Tell mom it doesn't fit, back hurts, whatever, and that you need to go get properly fitted. While there see if she will let you pick out your own underclothes, with her approval.After going through all this, is the reason for the granny panties that she doesn't want you wearing something sexy or is it that she doesn't want to, or can't, pay for the other or both?I know nothing about bra's, obviously, but surely you can find some that you think looks good, aren't expensive, and that mom will agree to. If I were a parent, I wouldn't be shelling out, bukoo cash, for sexy underware for a 13yr old, when only they and the person that does the laundry should be seeing them. See why this may not make sense to mom?