okay. so i have been lookin at this website at school ( haha ) for a few days now instead of doin my work. and i am very interested so i signed up! well here goes my fIrSt post =)okay. me n my boyfriend have been dating for a year and one month now (give or take a few days) we still havent had sex.. but i think we are soon. i am scared but then i just wanna get it over with. its a long distance realtionship and we see each other probably everyweekend. we've gone months without seein each other and seem to still stay together. i think its love?. i DO love him. more than anything! and i want to give him my "special gift" as we like to call it. we're both virgins! and another thing.. last night we were making out and he started fingering me. this isnt the first time but when he did it i just got so excited. and he was rubbin my clit and i was ilke omgggggggggg this is great. my eyes where rolling in the back of my head and i couldnt hardly breathe he was talkin to me but i dont remember what he was sayin i waslike OMG Shut up! haha. and now my clit hurts and so does my inside. idk why! it didnt happen last time we did it. but i think he used 2 fingers. im just SO confused. can anyone help me and tell me whats wrong?? or am i just overreacting! i would really appriciate it! thanks a bunches! muah xOxo kElS
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What is wronggg?
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Sorry, whats your question exactly? Are you overreacting to what? It hurting after he fingered you or that you want to have sex with him but your nervous?
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no, like why am i hurting?? cuz it felt good then it just started hurting while he was fingering me and stuff.
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I think its cause he just may have gotten into the moment a bit too much. You say that he may have used two fingers, but he has never done that before. Well not all girls are able to take much width at the beginning. The next few times it will get less and less painful, it may not even hurt at all.
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well thats DEF. a relief. yeah he got carried away. like at first im just like i DONNT wanna do it and then he just gets me in the moment or mood whatever. and he KNOWS he can. and i just go for it.. lol.
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how old are you?
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im 16.
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I wouldn't have thought that you would be able to access a site like this at school.............
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lol. yeah me either. this weird kid that sits beside me like typed in "popping the cherry" in ask.com or w/e. ya know the search engine. he was like freaken me out and then i seen the sight it took him too. (which was this one) and i was liek hmm neat. so i went to it through the search.