hi, i'm a 16yr old girl and i'm a virgin. me and my bf have been together for a while now and we want to take things to the next level by having intercourse... i'm all for it except that i'm afraid it's going to hurt... because my friend told me that she couldn't walk for 3 days after she did it for the first time!my bf's penis is about average size but i still think it's big and it'll hurt when it goes inside. we do other things and i get wet all the time, and i know he'll be gentle and slow....so to the girls reading, i was wondering, when you did it for the first time, did it hurt? and if so how much??...and to the guys, if it was her first time, did your gf say it hurt?
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Losing your virginity, does it hurt the first time
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If your wet, and are as relaxed as you can be i don't think it will hurt that much at all. Make sure you have time uninterrupted, that you make it special, and you have fun together.......your friend was just exagerating about not being able to walk.........It may hurt a little, but nothing that won't go away quickly.............you could use extra lubrication if you are worried that you won't be wet enough, tho make sure whatever you use is safe to use with condoms, etc.
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I'm a guy (I think) and with my last gf it was her first time. She said it hurt a bit but in a good way (if thats possible). She did bleed a bit after but as long as you don't get it on the sheets you'll be grand. We had a bt of a laugh about it. As Angel said, make it special but keep it fun.
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The amount of pain experienced the first time varies from girl to girl. It depends on they structure of your hymen (if it's still intact) and his size and what state you're in. For me, it hurt quite a bit. All you can do is make sure that you're wet, that you use some lube, that you are relaxed, and they he's slow and gentle. Then you just go by the feeling.
