ok, so this person who might be my gf, but might not be, because i really dont understand her at all at the moment. the following is generally what goes on all the time. pleasent at one encounter, completely and obviously ignores me at another, all smiles the next.
i sent her a cellphone text message earlier. the contents are irrelevent, but anyway, so she added me to her msn using my email address id given her weeks ago that she never used until now. she did this solely for the following conversation:
10:46:48 PM me: whosis?
10:47:22 PM her: hey
10:47:24 PM her: its (her name)
10:47:29 PM me: oh hey, whats up?
10:47:46 PM her: nothing much
10:48:14 PM her: can you please stop text messaging me everyday, its really expensive and kinda annoying (**i dont text message her everyday...maybe once or twice a week)
10:48:21 PM her: I don;t mean to be rude or anything
10:48:23 PM her: but yeah
10:48:33 PM me: oh, they charge you for that? im sorry, i didnt realize that
10:48:39 PM her: yeah
10:49:13 PM me: i just figured they gave you some huge number that no one ever reaches anyway
10:49:34 PM her: uuhh no
10:49:46 PM her: lol that doesn't even make sence
10:50:01 PM me: what do you mean? i get like 2000 free received text messages a month
10:50:20 PM her: yeah whatever
10:50:21 PM her: anyway
10:50:24 PM her: i have to go
10:50:25 PM her: bye
10:50:28 PM me: bye..
she then proceeded to go offline almost instantly after her last message (im a fast typer, so i managed to sneak in that 'bye'). note the quick succession of the last 3 messages. 3 messages in 3 seconds. i got suspicious, so i checked one of those sites that tells you if people are online independantly of your msn program. a sort of block checker. sure enough, she was still online, but had just blocked me. so i was all set to hit send on a sarcasm-laced email, asking how 'got to go' is synonymous with 'block dave and stay online' when she all of a sudden comes back online. i waited a few minutes to see if shed say something, but she didnt, so i sent her a message.
11:05:19 PM me: back?
11:06:10 PM her: no, I am trying to go to sleep thanks
11:06:24 PM her: hence the reason my status is set to away (**it was on brb, actually, but irrelevent. anyway,)
11:06:32 PM me: oh
11:06:43 PM me: sorry
11:06:53 PM her: thanks though (**whats she thanking me for??)
i figured the conversation was over at this point, and i was left even more confused as to A) why her computer was still on, B) how she knew i was sending messages, unless its booping every time i sent a message, which asks the question, why doesnt she just turn the volume off or something, and C) why she 'came back online' ..i mean, unblocked me, to go to bed.
so surprise surprise, another few minutes later, i get this:
11:08:59 PM her: I am just really tired thats all
11:09:20 PM me: ok, i understand. i just figured since your computer was still on, that you were probably using it
11:09:27 PM her: no
and that was the end of that. i really dont get it. is this just the result of grumpiness? or what?
a suitable comparison would be like, someone punching you in the face, then giving you $50 and some flowers out of kindness, then punching you in the face again. i really have no idea whats going on here.
its now 11:30, and shes still online, but sleeping, apparently...we'll see if shes stays online all night or if she does, in fact, go offline at some point before i wake up tomorrow.
what do you make of this?