Makes no sense....

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ok, so this person who might be my gf, but might not be, because i really dont understand her at all at the moment. the following is generally what goes on all the time. pleasent at one encounter, completely and obviously ignores me at another, all smiles the next.

i sent her a cellphone text message earlier. the contents are irrelevent, but anyway, so she added me to her msn using my email address id given her weeks ago that she never used until now. she did this solely for the following conversation:

10:46:48 PM me: whosis?
10:47:22 PM her: hey
10:47:24 PM her: its (her name)
10:47:29 PM me: oh hey, whats up?
10:47:46 PM her: nothing much
10:48:14 PM her: can you please stop text messaging me everyday, its really expensive and kinda annoying (**i dont text message her everyday...maybe once or twice a week)
10:48:21 PM her: I don;t mean to be rude or anything
10:48:23 PM her: but yeah
10:48:33 PM me: oh, they charge you for that? im sorry, i didnt realize that
10:48:39 PM her: yeah
10:49:13 PM me: i just figured they gave you some huge number that no one ever reaches anyway
10:49:34 PM her: uuhh no
10:49:46 PM her: lol that doesn't even make sence
10:50:01 PM me: what do you mean? i get like 2000 free received text messages a month
10:50:20 PM her: yeah whatever
10:50:21 PM her: anyway
10:50:24 PM her: i have to go
10:50:25 PM her: bye
10:50:28 PM me: bye..

she then proceeded to go offline almost instantly after her last message (im a fast typer, so i managed to sneak in that 'bye'). note the quick succession of the last 3 messages. 3 messages in 3 seconds. i got suspicious, so i checked one of those sites that tells you if people are online independantly of your msn program. a sort of block checker. sure enough, she was still online, but had just blocked me. so i was all set to hit send on a sarcasm-laced email, asking how 'got to go' is synonymous with 'block dave and stay online' when she all of a sudden comes back online. i waited a few minutes to see if shed say something, but she didnt, so i sent her a message.

11:05:19 PM me: back?
11:06:10 PM her: no, I am trying to go to sleep thanks
11:06:24 PM her: hence the reason my status is set to away (**it was on brb, actually, but irrelevent. anyway,)
11:06:32 PM me: oh
11:06:43 PM me: sorry
11:06:53 PM her: thanks though (**whats she thanking me for??)

i figured the conversation was over at this point, and i was left even more confused as to A) why her computer was still on, B) how she knew i was sending messages, unless its booping every time i sent a message, which asks the question, why doesnt she just turn the volume off or something, and C) why she 'came back online' ..i mean, unblocked me, to go to bed.

so surprise surprise, another few minutes later, i get this:

11:08:59 PM her: I am just really tired thats all
11:09:20 PM me: ok, i understand. i just figured since your computer was still on, that you were probably using it
11:09:27 PM her: no

and that was the end of that. i really dont get it. is this just the result of grumpiness? or what?

a suitable comparison would be like, someone punching you in the face, then giving you $50 and some flowers out of kindness, then punching you in the face again. i really have no idea whats going on here.

its now 11:30, and shes still online, but sleeping, apparently...we'll see if shes stays online all night or if she does, in fact, go offline at some point before i wake up tomorrow.

what do you make of this?

Dave

What a bitch, Forget about her, you dont need a girl like that.

I'm pretty confused who's using cell phones and who's using computers, and when, to text message.With Sprint, I need to buy some optional service to get a bunch of text messages, otherwise they cost me 10 cents a piece. Since using the phone keyboard to send messages drives me nuts, I rarely bother.Don't people often leave their computer on all the time, with the messaging application on-line?

Holy crap, I'm in the old guy zone. I can't figure out what's going on.

shes blowing him off and being mean, condescending while shes at it

wow she's totally rude! and how did you figure she was your gf in the first place?? slightly confused

refer here:http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB14&Number=241016&page=2&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1yes, its the same girl...i know, 'told ya so', but yeah. lolDave

"Holy crap, I'm in the old guy zone. I can't figure out what's going on."Well Steve hope you don't mind company because your not alone. I didn't follow that at all either.Passes Steve the Geritol

yes, its the same girlOooooh. In that case, our advice in that thread still stands. Why are you wasting time and emotional energy on this girl? You rate something better. Even watching TV would be better.

Oh yeah I remember that thread. You really need to get rid of her, she's no good for you honey. you deserve way better x

you should leave that dumb bitch a bunch of text mesages and get her phone bill way up there and laugh at her. put her in check.

alright, problem solved, for now. she finally just freaked out on me over msn (how lame is that? couldnt even face me in person), and told me all this stuff she supposedly said that i ignored, about how she was never interested in a relationship in the first place (which asks the question as to why she came after me in the first place), how she told me to stop trying to intereact with her at work, and how she keeps telling me to stop talking to her in general, and i dont listen, but i assume its just more lame excuses, seeing as how i have no recollection at all for any of these.im glad she finally said something conclusive, but i think this stories just about finished. just waiting to see if she replies to my last email, which would seem to be the only communication option left open to me. whatever, she can go...well..lets leave it at that. family friendly site Dave

again, another strange turn of events. she came on msn, and she actually APOLIGIZED that she hadnt been more clear before. no condescending tone, no 'whatever's, just the person i used to know, explaining it nicely.apparently 'seeing each other' and 'together' mean totally different things from her point of view. it means 'getting to know someone better' as opposed to 'being a couple. to which i was not aware of. especially considering her .. prior actions. in any case, now we're at the part where she says 'we can still be friends', and i can do nothing but agree and hope for the best... sighs the exact same ending to yet another relationship. i wonder if im ever going to have one where that damn phrase doesnt get brought up. im getting sick and tired of hearing it over and over and over again. 4th times the charm, maybe...cause the 3rd sure wasnt.at least she isnt completely pissed off at me anymore. that should make things a bit less awkward at work. i guess its true that you should never EVER date someone from the same place. leads to all sorts of unpleasentries... to all of you who may consider dating that cute cashier, DONT! learn from my mistake.

She's totally nuts. If you have any ideas of continuing a relationship with her, you're nuts too.