i got my first b.f i really liked him...my friends (i thought they were my friends) told him i like other guys, and was using him ( NOT TRUE ) we went out for a month...but drifted apart...things got so messed, now weve been just friends for like 2days...we still wanna go out, but weve been so abused mentally, things are weird, and we just dont know how to fix things...we know people will still say shit, but we want to go out, we just dont want this to happen again...we dont like being just friends we wanna be more...what should we do? should we set down rules? try to change our bad habits? how can we fix this? what are some things we can do to help show our affection and make eachother happy? how can we shut out what other people say, things that are not true? how can we trust again? :confused: