Girls: How long does it usually take you to achieve an orgasm when your partner goes down on you? Also, I've never gotten an orgasm from my boyfriend and I was wondering if it was beucase I think about getting one so much.
**sometimes i cum, sometimes i don't, if i do it can vary in how long it takes, there is no hard and fast rules, or timescales. Thinking about having one, could, make it so you don't relax enough, etc. Its nice to have your guy make you cum, but its not the be all and end all, and if you focus on that it could turn out more damaging to the relationship than not cumming. If he wants to make you cum and you want to, then try different ways of doing it, but most of all keep sex fun ** :grin:
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One thing that a lot of people, especially younger folks, don't know is that many women do not orgasm very well from intercourse. Especially, if the guy jumps straight to it with no type of foreplay or very little foreplay.
Most of us guys need to learn some techniques that involve hands, fingers, mouths, tongues, etc and get more into foreplay.
Also, position can be important, how things match up and rub together. Clitoral stimulation is usually needed for most women to orgasm.
Be sure your in a comfortable location, are in a great mood, have plenty of foreplay, don't concentrate on it so much, and warm up with a few orgasms from oral stimulation. I find these ALWAYS work when I want to give my wife an orgasm from intercourse.
And a girl rolling in orgasms is so much more fun for me