Gay man in love with a woman?

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Any of you gay guys fall in love with a woman after dating only guys? Can she truly make him happy? They are supposed to marry sometime in 2006.

Uhh...are you bisexual then? I'm not quite sure what you wanna know.

no neither are bi, shes straight and hes gay.

Well, I guess a gay guy and a straight woman can get married. I dunno in reality if it happens, but I mean its possible. In uh, 20/20 or 60 minutes this woman married a man for 10 years. Later she found out he was gay. She still stayed by his side, they still had sex(yes good ol' sex) and he still went out to satisfy himself. He wasn't bi, he was gay. They had kids too.I still don't understand how it would work out cause whats gon' happen if he falls in love with some guy? But to your question, I guess sexual orientation and stuff shouldn't be squished into one catergory then. W/e, This world is so big anything is possible.

Yes, it is possible. It probably happens more than we know. Since labels are what make the person, I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of gay or straight people don't tell other people that they like someone out of their assumed sexuality.

Hes the best shes ever been with to be sure, Treats her like a queen and spoils her rotton. She talks to me alot tho worried she wont beable to make him as happy as he makes her.

this is why i hate the term homo or bi-SEXUAL. Love doesn't have lables, I'm homosensual, I could have sex with either a guy or a girl, not a big deal, but as for that spiritual and emotional connection, that heart filled love, I can only find with guys.so A gay guy in love with a woman, totally possible

As long as she loves him as much as he loves her, then there shouldn't be too much of a problem. Unless he's more of an object person and believes that recieving and giving is how to show how much one loves a person, then there won't be much of a problem unless she can't afford something he wants. Although I'm assuming that you're talking about the sex. In this case, I don't know what to tell you since I've always wondered what I would do if I ever fell in love with a girl. They might have to do things that neither of them would want to do in order to make it work, which will diminish their chance at a good sex life. They might have to resort to getting him an external source of stimulation while they're in bed, such as porn. I doubt that it would get to the extreme of having to find an actual guy to come in and help, but many bisexual and gay guys in relationships with women do sometimes resort to going out every once and a while and cheating on their wives with some guy. That is the biggest concern that I have, and I think that you might want to talk to him about it if you feel that it is necessary. I'm not saying that he will cheat, though.

Things have been going very well so far. Both seem perfectly happy. Shes said shes learned to use toys to make him happy as far as the "backdoor" is concerned. Theres an equal give/take in the relationship with neither one asking too much on the other.My personal opinion is she worries to much and she should just enjoy such a wonderful guy.

Sarah,Love is possible between two people. I am gay and have two kids… My wife left me…I was faithful to the end….. She knew I was gay when she married me…. It lasted 5 years…. It is a difficult position to be in. It’s hard for a person to be in love with someone but not sexually attracted to them. There isn’t any of that natural passion that comes from being sexually attracted to the one you’re in love with.… Love is different from sex….Have you seen Brokeback Mountain....?Go see it...http://www.brokebackmountain.com/splash.html

So were you not sexually attracted to your wife, even though you were in love with her? That would be rough. I commend you for your faithfulness to her. That goes against the stereotype of gay men that says they can't be monogomous.I saw 'Brokeback Mountain'. Honestly, I was disappointed. I thought it was good, but not great. Although the lead performances were great.