Okay- here's the situation: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while, and have recently started getting more physical. A few days ago, I started to move "down there" with my fingers. Long story short- I discovered that her Hymen is likely unbroken. How should I handle this? It is a difficult subject to discuss, but if we do not discuss it, she will probably continue to tell me to stop when she first feels the pain that comes with the hymen stretching. I am very unsure of where to go with this problem.Thank you for any advice.
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A Hymen Question
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I am personally un-educated about the hymen. I know that until the vagina is impaled, it is like a "seal", but I'd like to know more about it. If anyone could post some info it or a link to a thread explaining it, I'd greatly apreciate it. :smirk:
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There really isnt anything to discuss. The hymen in most girls is broken before any sexual intercourse of any kind. It is only an inch or two inside the vaginal opening. It can be broken by many things that she would do in her normal day. Inserting a tampon for example would break it, intense stretching.
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Ughhhh... it is not "only an inch or two inside the vaginal opening". It is right at the opening, not inside the vagina.
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I wanted to give him the idea that it wasnt way inside of her
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Um.... Tell her to do a split, that usually stretches it.... If not, then just clean and lubricate your finger and then slowly insert it inside of her. Its going to hurt unless she decides to stretch it. If she does it herself, you won't have to worry about hurting her.Riding a bikeSplitsRunningGymnasticsYogaTamponsMasturbationAll ways of stretching it.Here's a website www.SexualHealth.com it should have some info.
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No problem!!! Did u go 2 the website?
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It's not really a seal, it does have an opening to let dischange and menstrual fluids out.
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you mean it isnt air tight like a ziplock bag? lol
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Haha, in a way...I found out what I NEED to know, I'll leave the rest to my imagination.
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Hymen is the peice of skin witch can be broken to let things slip inside the vagina.. right?!?
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right
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Thank you.
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Hey, I'll just ask this here to avoid creating another thread with a similar question...I just recently started to finger my girlfriend, and I did it a little bit on the outside the first time, but the second time I went in a lot deeper, and used two fingers. This time, though, she started to bleed, and it covered my fingers. I assume this was just her hymen breaking, but I figure I would ask to be sure.Thanks.
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Broken "cherries" leave red stains. Seriously though that is probably what happened, you broke her hymen.