im 19 years old and ive had sex about 5 times, and with 2 girls. when im with my new girlfriend i can't seem to keep it hard enough to have sex. is this something that will pass with more expierience? or is there something wrong with me?
Don't worry about it much. Most guys seem to go through a patch where their erections aren't that strong. This could be caused by fatigue, stress or you are just thinking about it too much. Also if you aren't comfortable with your partner that could also be an issue.
My suggestion would be to spend a day together (if possible) where you are well rested and there is no pressure to have sex. You could do things for her, you'll probably find if you concertrate on her, your member will just pop up without you noticing.
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I have a friend who is a bit older..
He has the same issue..IN time it will pass..relax. It will come back!
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