when i was about 13 me and my freind jerked off all the time in the same room. and one day we got so well, hot with all these videos and decided to experiment we said so the other doesnt think the other is gay, kinda of weird, and we ending up with anal and oral sex. after a year i guess we felt so weird of doing that we just never talked agian and now i feel like im living a lie and im bi. can somone post if im gay or bi or did anyone else do it? i feel like im one of many people how would do such a thing.
Am i gay now?
I don't think you need to worry there buddy.It is very common for guys that age to experiment with their buddies. YOu kind of took it to an extreme, but it was probably just experimenting.The fact that you felt such negative tension afterwards may be a clue that you aren't gay or bi, just curious and experimental. Especially if you haven't done it since or haven't wanted to do it since.What about now? Are you attracted to guys? Wanna have sex with them. Who you are is about now, not about when you were 13.
Screw the whales, save the subjunctive!
theres nothing wrong with experimentation, infact its healthy i really wouldnt worry about it...as for your sexuality, just see what happens, youre still young and you dont need to worry about it- you dont need to categorize yourself yet...or ever!
If you don't know if you're gay, you're not gay. When I was young my sister and I french-kissed to just see what it was like and if it was good. Later on when I got older I persuaded her to make out with me a couple times. We both liked it, because it made us feel good and alive, but neither of us really knew why. When I became of age (14) we fooled around one last time and I went down on her briefly because I had "energy" I needed to get out. I guess I experimented with my sister because she was willing and available. I would have done it with another person had I had a friend that was willing. I did have a girlfriend at that age, but I was way too afraid to even kiss her, because I was so timid and sheltered.Since then nothing's happened between my sister and me. I've never wanted to touch her again. Growing up is all about experimentation. I believe that nothing you do while growing up defines you regarding your sexuality. Everyone is just curious and hungry for any kind of experience when they're young. Just because I touched my sister doesn't mean I'm into incest. Just because you were with another boy does't mean you're a fag. There was also a time with me when I was sleeping over with my two male cousins, one a year older, one two years younger. We were in the same room, me and the younger in one bed, the older in a separate bed. I don't remember what led up to it, but I think we asked to see his uncircumcised penis. Eventually all three of us were naked, kind of giggling; we just wanted to compare ourselves. Our curiosity outweighed any inhibitions we had about privacy or morality. We simply wanted to know. All three of us have girlfriends now; what we did didn't change us into being gay.