hey people long time since i been on here lol. Well i just got out of what i had thought for the past 6months had been the best 6months of my and my ex gfs relationship but i guess not because it turns out she had been lieing and stuff and all that crap and i couldnt deal with the constant bitching which i then found out she was being a bitch to push me away pretty immature but what ever. I was with her for 2years and i felt pretty attached to her, i ended it but its so hard everyone always says it isnt my fault and stuff but i cant get it out my mind sometimes that it may have been my fault? i can admit i may have been a bit of a bastard but i never hit or treated her badly. Well anyways i just need some help on what to do i cant just sit around on the comp listening to music and thinkin about her. Any help? thanks in advnace
Bit of help needed!
Well, you have to look at it in a progressive way. Perhaps there were things you could have handled differently and now you wish you did. Don't dwell on it. Reflect on it and think of what you might be able to do next time to better yourself. You stated that you felt like you sometimes think you were a bastard. What makes you feel that way? If it's a legitimate reason, and you don't like that about yourself, then work on changing that. We all have room for self improvement. The key thing is to be looking ahead and using your past as a tool for the future.
Other people can't change you, but you can change yourself.