Hey everyone. I have a little problem thats been bothering me, and that would be is i dont know how the hell to make friends now? All my friends right now are from when i was a kid or from school, and all we do is smoke and stuff lol, but im growing out of this stage now, im 18 graduated, working full time and it was easy to make friends in school, esp ones that you had classes with, but now that im out how do i meet new people? I'm not big at clubbing or parties or anything. I'm kind of lost here, and everyone i know is still smoking away, but im starting to loose interest in them and everything alltogether. Any help please?
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Friends
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Also, im a very enjoyable person to be around, I'm a person whos very well liked, very friendly and a person who can anyone get along with. Don't know what to do
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try meeting people from work. or if your friends have a party, go and see if there is anyone who you have never met be4 who isnt into smoking.
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The thing about meeting new people is you need to find a base for common interest. For example, if you're at the waterfront and you see a girl you might like to talk to, then edge your way over and say something about the surroundings because the chances are that she enjoys being there and so do you.Another way is to meet the friends of your friends that you don't really know. Or maybe you can ask a co-worker to hang out and then they can introduce you to their friends.
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im so fucking glad i got away from my high school friends when i did. by that point it had been dragged on waaaay toooo looong with them. like you, the most common denominator between us all was school. it was a few years until i started meeting the people i wanted to hang out with. and even at that it took me a while to find the right people. to this day i dont have many close friends, but i have a best friend thats nearly my twin, couldnt ask for more. when i started going to clubs that played the kind of music i like then i started meeting the kind of people wanted to get to know. also, ive gotten to know people that hang out at cafe's that i frequent. give it some time, you will find people. try going online and find what you like and see if there are any message boards for those activities in your town.