The subject is a bit misleading, met the girlfriend's parents many months ago now. Things have just become a bit awkward recently. Before anyone asks... I'm 18 and she's 17.Because my gfs had glandular (quite badly) for the last couple months, I've spend a lot of time around at her place and had a lot of interaction with her parents. A couple of problems have arisen since I have been then more frequently.1. Her dad. He keeps on making 'friendly' jokes (about me) or telling me to do things infront of my girlfriend and her mum. They both take offence and tell him not to do it, but I sort of ignore it or just play along and joke with him. Things have got kind of awkward between me and him...2. When I used to go around there we would be allowed in her room, door closed, whatever. But recently her parents have insisted that we keep the door open while in there together... They said to her when she complained that they had noticed we have become "too comfortable" around eachother. In other words they finally caught on that we were sexually active. I can understand that they don't want us having sex or anything while they are in the house (I assume that they don't have a problem of us being alone together since they let us being alone in the house together) but we do want our privacy, we want to be able to talk to about things without the chance of one of them walking past and overhearing. It's pissing me off, they could just be a little more direct about it. Oh and another thing, if we are lying down on her bed and her dad walks past, he will say something like "oi! not too close!" in a mock-serious manner, but you can tell he still means it.I know some of you are going to come at me with the "their house, their rules" argument, but I think that is only going to serve to create a devision between us and her parents. I guess I just want to know how to get some damn private time when I'm over there and how get rid of that damned awkwardness!
Meet the parents...
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Sorry to say it, but there is no way you will be able to have absolute private time when her parents are home. I mean, can you really blame them? Would you let your 17 year old, sexually active daughter lay in the bed next to her boyfriend with the door closed?
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