Well, I am a 19 year old virgin and I really like guys. Sometimes I look at girls and find myself Attracted to them. I have thought this for years. I talked to my friends and one told me in 10th grade If you don't know if you are gay now you aren't! I also have these dreams where I am making out with girls or haing sex with them. In the dreams I am really turned on. When I wake up I am really happy like they idea of me with a girl really turned me on. This one guy told me I can't know if I am bi unless I have had sex with a girl or a guy. Well, I am virgin so how do I know? Also, my friend is bi and my sister are bi. My friend dosen't take me serious about it.My sister says it's not possibe for two people in the same family to be bi.Can someone help me please???!!!!!!! :confused:
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Well...your sister is wrong I suppose it is possible for two people to be bi in the family, probably just very unusual...
Maybe your sister wants to be the only bi one in the family, and that's why she said it.
its not unusual for bi ppl in the family lol i'm bi my brothers gay, my cousin is a lesbian (my dads side) and my other cousin is bi (my mums side) and at a family party a few weeks ago i learnt that another cousin from my dads side thinks hes gay lol it's really weird
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acording to this, it seems your sister just jumper on the "bi bandwagon" for attention.
It is totally possible and quite common for people in the same family to be gay/bi.
You don't have to have sex to tell this is complete bullshit. There are tons of strait guys that love anal stimulation from their girls.
The best way is to forget the sex, and think if you can see yourself having a relationship and emotionally loving both sexes. Or if it's just the thought that being with a guy turns you on, if this is so, then it's possible that you're bi, but most likely it's just a sexual fantasy.
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Thanks for the advice you guys! Now, however, I have a new problem. The other night I was my best friend's dorm and when we had talked on the phone earlier I had gotten this strange vibe from her. I spent the whole day with her and I could swear she was hitting on me. I have never been good at telling but I was almost sure. I told my sister and she said that's just how my friend is. Well, later at my friends dorm, we were both sleepy so we decided to take a nap. While we were in bed we were listening to RENT and she put her arm around me. I thought nothing of it because that's just how she is. But, then she moved her hand under my shirt. I wasn't wearing a bra! We laughed but, but she did it again. We did this little dance for like 20 mins. We just kept playing around. Then she kissed me and we made out for and hour!!!!! I don't know why I didn't stop it! I felt so good, but so wrong. Not wrong because she is a girl but becasue she is my BEST FRIEND IS THE WORLD!!!! We then stopped and just layed there. About an hour later she was asleep and I was not. I couldn't stop thinking about it. She woke up and asked me why I was awake and I told her what happens now? Then she shrugged her shoulders and I just leaned in and we went at it again!!!!! This happened Thursday and I haven't really talked to her. I don't know what to do. I don't know what she is feeling or what it meant to her. Help me!!!!!!!!!!!! Please!!!! And thought I was confused before!!!!!