Age difference..lots of questions. help.

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Okay, so I am a freshman, and I've liked this junior. I am 14, going on 15, he's 17. And well he says he's willing to make things work for us, and stuff. I know i can trust him. but like, he asked me if i would rather be friends or have a relationship, by relationship does he mean "gf/bf" type thing, i asked him and he didn't say. i'm so lost. someone help

I'm going to be very cynical here.Since 17 wasn't that long ago for me I think I can fairly say most guys just want to use girls for sex at that age.Of course there are genuinely nice guys who are after a relationship. But unfortunately too often guys just use this facade to get sex. Trust him at your own risk of being hurt.Yours sincerely,The Devil's advocate

well that much of an age difference really is nothing,but im kinda wondering why he wouldnt answer, if he wanted a relationship i would think hed atleast answer well if he said he was going to make things work, so all i can say is ask him make him tell you,as to is he just wants sex and is lying to you about the relationship bit theres no easy way to tell,and if he does than hes a bastard who should be kicked in the nads by a giant mule on steroids,so ask him make him tell you then decide if you can really trust him

well he is probably after sex most likely..I would assume he is knowing you are a virgin and it is something good if he can get it...Be careful and do not do anything thre real you wants...I say that b/c men can say things that make you feel a certain way just to get what they want...women can too, but men more often.

well, if ur gonna have a relationship with him, thats cool. id just b abit carful if i were u and look out for any signs or indications thats its just about sex 4 him. if he starts trying 2 get u 2 do anything ur not into, its a sex thing and tell him 2 go fuck himself. ass hole.better yet, im sure u could inlist the help of several guys off this site 2 go beat him up 4 u.....only jokeing. if hes not being honest, he'll get whats coming 2 him in the end.

cutencrazy as long as theres a will theres a way,and if theres a bat theres a bloody asshole

haha, well said

Yes I was sexual at 17, but had many chances and never took advantage of anyone. I would have easily waited for sex if she was a virgin. I lost mine at 18, and she was my ex wife. But everyones different, you just have to be carefull.

lol thanks,now wheres that bat.......