What are some other ways besides stop-and-go that could make me last longer.
Improve how long I last
"This is not my life
It's just a fond farewell to a friend-"
that's a tough one. I take this advice straight out of Chuck Palahniuk(author of Fight Club)'s book "Choke"- whenever the guy has sex with a hot chick, he thinks about dead rats, compost heaps and multiple car pileups to keep from cumming 2 early. Or just think of a real fat chic or some 1's grandma. Never tried it, but sounds like it helps.
And sheperds we shall be, for thee my Lord for thee, power hath descended forth from thy hand and our feet may swiftly carry out thy command, so we...
Mental approach seems to work for me. At the moment I've settled on memory of me catching this cat in a cage. Pretty random but it seems to work. I still feel like I'm going to come but it just stays there. Great feelings actually.
"Believe those who are seeking the truth; doubt those who find it"