See, me and my girlfriend have had a good relationship so far, about 5 months now. And I keep hearing rumors she is cheating on me, but I go to her and ask her, and she is telling me the truth, I mean, she cares for me so much, and I have no idea what to do, its driving me crazy. Someone please help!
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Hearing stuff
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Oh boy, I hate that crap. Well, never take rumors to seriously, but don't ignore them. You have to consider the source of the rumor. Who is telling you this? Enemies of her, or just people being drams queens? What does your gut say? All in all bud, if you think she is cheating your just going to have to investigate. I know my ex never admitted it. I had to catch her in the act.
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Well see, I broke one of the sources arms on Monday LOL, but she looks like she is telling me the truth, she looks me straight in the eye and says she is telling the truth and I get scared, because that stare says, "HELLO I'M TELLING THE TRUTH!" And she isn't the kind of girl to cheat, I believe.
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Everyone is different. I am not trying to convince you she is unfaithful, but don't be so closed minded. It is natural for you to wanna believe her. I was in the same position. Some people simply feel no guilt in telling a lie and are toooooo good at it. People will tell themselves they did nothing wrong and once they believe their own inner demon, it isn't telling a lie in their mind. Trackin?
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God I had that happen to me before, my very first bf in 8th grade. SOme girls would come to me and tell me "I saw your bf making out with a highschool girl" I have to say that my bf at that time was a big flirt but I couldnt care much I thought to myself whatever its not like we are married and we only been going out for a couple months lol. But we ended going out for almost two years 8th grade to sophomore year. So despite all the rumors we made it through that long.So the best thing to do is trust her. Unless you caught her doing something like making out with another guy then yeah. But this is all rumors and drama. Trust her and be good to her cause that will only make your relationship stronger, and she will know that you arent some overbearing controlling low self esteem bf. Cause that was what happened betweein myold bf. He thought I was cheating on him when i wasnt at all and he just became so paranoid and over protective that I just couldnt take it anymore.Ignore those rumors, if they keep saying she is cheating then tell them to go talk to her about it in front of you.
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If it's just rumours, ignore it. And if you know who started them, confront the person about it.