Hi everyone! First post! Anyway, here's the rub:I've know this girl for 2 years, but i've only got to know her well recently, she's 17 and I'm 16.I like her quite a bit, and I guess she likes me as well, so I invited her to come and stay at my family's holiday home when our exams have finished. She was really flattered and said she'll definately come, and now we're both really excited . I haven't told her I like her or asked her on a date, and she doesn't like anyone that i know of, and all the guys that like her are (by her admission) 'freaks'. I figure that this weekend would be a good time to get to know her really well and maybe make a move. There's loads of stuff to do there, we'll be going kayaking/canoeing, playing badminton, watching movies and chiilling in general. So what I'd like to ask you guys is:Is this a good time to tell her how i feel?Any good ways of telling her (like just straight out telling her or taking her hand etc.)?Any fun, sweet things I can do to show her that i care about her?And any other tips you guys and gals can give me.Thanks very much people, I appreciate your help.
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Welcome to the boards hon During your very busy fun stuff, why not, if the weather is nice, have a picnic with her, either go together to the supermarket and choose the food, or surprise her.............sit, eat, enjoy the weather and eachothers company, and then just say how you feel...........sorry im a bit obsessed by picnics at the mo now the suns out LOL Im sure there are lots of idea people will post......hope the weekend goes like a dream
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Mate, this is a chance of a lifetime. If it’s just your family you’re going with then she is coming because of YOU!!!.You can have a good time; remember to rub lotion on her (I hope your not going anywhere in the U.K. with the weather we have been having!But then about halfway through say something to her. Or at least drop REALLY REALLY obvious hints. The chances are if she is coming then its because she also likes you. No promises with that last statement since your good friends but its likely.Same thing is happening with me at the mo, good friends with a girl I like but she has a BF so that’s another shit story.Well, good luck with her and your exams.Damn A levels, guessing your doing GCSE's, phffff, easy!!!Give us updates.Mr. Nuts
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I agree, it sounds likely that she likes you, seeing as it's just you and your family she's going with. Drop the obvious hints, but when you tell her how you feel, try not to put her on the spot. After all, she might be going because you're such close friends, but she might not feel quite the same as you do. Do things that will help her relax and feel comfortable and if things don't quite go to plan, don't freeze up. Keep busy! There's nothing worse than awkward silences. But (i might be sounding a bit fickle here, but what the hell) make sure you drop really obvious hints. She might be feeling the same way, and if neither of you do anything you'll both be kicking yourselves for quite a while. That's happened to me twice now, damn my lack of confidence, and theirs. Right, sorry if that's confusing, i think i confused myself! Good luck.
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The best advice I can give is to pay compliments. If I like a girl, I go out of my way to do this! I have no fear in telling a girl that she is beautiful, has nice eyes, hair etc....It's much more effective than saying general comments such as "I like you". Tell her that you like spending time with her and what aspects of her you find interesting. It can be conveyed in a friendly manner and you don't have to come across as someone who is just trying to get her into bed.
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