I'm really concerned about size of boobs

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Okay, I'm a 36aa, and I'm worried that they'll never grow. It would be alright if my nipples weren't so puffy, but they look very strange when they're soft. It's like my boob, and then big nipple jutting out. I was told that this could mean my boobs are going to grow soon, but I've had them since i was 10. I haven't gotten much bigger since then. Do you think that if i eventually got breast implants they'd look better? I'm really insecure about my breasts and it makes me never want to have sex with my boyfriend because i don't want him to see them.

You're still young. You really need to give it more time.

Well if no one is going to reply to my post, can anyone answer me this? Scientifically, why do the nipples puff out on young girls?

that's a misconception, just because your nipples puff out doesn't mean your breasts are about to grow, some girls have puffy nipples and others don't, i sound like a broken record...but it's all genetics

okay, well i've seen my mom breasts and my aunts. Both of them do not have puffy nipples at all. I asked my mom about her mom, and she said she didn't have them either. I'm pretty sure none of my other aunts didn't have them cuz you can usually tell through their shirt without really looking too hard.

things can skip many generations, don't worry about it, there's nothing that can be done, and it's normal

In reply to: it makes me never want to have sex with my boyfriend because i don't want him to see them. if you act confidently, sexily, he wont even notice!do not worry! he'll be wrapped at the idea that you're naked and getting kinky with him!if you are happy with yourself it will make a world of difference, he'll probably remember the experience as being one of his best times in his life (espicially if he is a virgin)a happy girl laying naked next to a guy is always a great thing! the human body is a beautiful thing in its original way, not conforming to some societies projected fake image.if he doesnt like you for your breast size then he is not worth a minute of your time (let alone your virginity [if you are])! you can think of it as a test but dont worry about it!

Well it's hard for me to act sexy when my nipples resemble those of an 8-year-old. And I don't get why getting breast implants wouldn't help my nipples to look normal. I mean sure they'd still look puffy, but they wouldn't be sticking out because the implant would be stretching them out. I don't know, i personally don't think the human body is beautiful with all of it's wrinkling and discoloration, not to mention cellulite on females. I'd like to ask God what the hell he was thinking when designing the human body. It causes more grief for people than happiness.

breast implants don't stretch the nipple out

You may have a point w/ the puffiness and growing. When your breasts are growing, they become tender just like any other part of your body when you're growing. I've noticed that I especially hurt in the nipple aread and they become inflamed. It only lasted about a week or two though so if yours are puffy all of the time I would doubt that it means they're growing. The best sign that you're growing is tenderness.

I know i have no buisness posting on this one but oh wellBreast size isn't that big of an issue, it's an attration point at first but once you know said person it really isn't a big deal, (To big=Nasty, To small=who cares)Don't Worry about it, If they grow thats great if not it really isn't a big deal

your puffy nipples are "breast buds" and perfectly normal. as you grow and mature, that will go away.as for this comment: i personally don't think the human body is beautiful with all of it's wrinkling and discoloration, not to mention cellulite on females. I'd like to ask God what the hell he was thinking when designing the human body. It causes more grief for people than happiness. God or whoever/whatever did just fine. it's SOCIETY...Playboy, MTV, Calvin Klein ads, soap operas, Victoria's Secret, Super Models....the list goes one....THAT is who has totally skewed the REALITY of the human body, especially for women.the pretty, perfect, airbrushed pictures you see are NOT normal people! trust me!!!

Yea, I didn't mean to say that, at least not like how it came out. I do think the human body is beautiful, but I've always had body image problems, and i feel abnormal when both my breasts and labia make me worry. And yea, media does have a big influence on my insecurities I'm getting two different replies here though, so I'm confused. Some say that my nipples are a sign of growth and the others say that they won't grow.

Yea, I don't know if this may make sense, but my friend told me that she had a big knot in her breast (a bump that hurt if pressed on) in her boobs before they grew. I feel like i have them, so has anyone ever heard of this before?

that's totally normal.

_What Causes Soreness?
One of the most common times that breasts might feel sore is when they are beginning to develop. First you might notice a small button-like lump beneath the nipple area. The medical name for this is the breast bud, and it is often present in guys and girls. The breast bud may be a little tender and may cause you to worry but it's a normal part of puberty.

It is also common to have sore breasts around the beginning of a girl's period, or menstruation. A week or so before her period starts, the body begins producing lots of the female hormones estrogen and progesterone. _

Thanx for your posts. That really helped.

my 2 cents. don't get implants. as a guy and speaking for many guys, natural is always better. big or small. there are many females without big breasts that are so beautiful.

aww,

Don't worry. Most guys don't like huge boobs like everyone thinks we do. I prefer Bs. C is when they start to get droopy, unless they are really firm.

to follow up -- my stepdaughter is 15 and lives in another state so i don't see her but 3 or 4 times a year. she had the buds for the past year or so...looked like a board with marshmallows she was just here a few weeks ago and wow - must have had a growth spurt because she's now a full a cup, well on her way to a b i suspect.