when my boyfriend goes down on me, although it feels so good, i just cant orgasm. its upsetting him as much as its upsetting me. is there something wrong with me? are there any trade secrets to reach that point?
I cant orgasm
Sometimes it takes a long time for a girl to orgasm. Sometimes, oral sex does nothing for you. I can suggest a couple of things. 1/ Relax. If you are nervous or expecting something to happen it won't! Enjoy the sensation and it will help. 2/ Try masterbating yourself for a bit, maybe ask your man to do the same. Nobody knows how to turn you on better than you! 3/ If you want to orgasm through oral sex, ask your man to use his fingers to gently caress your clitoris while his tounge goes inside of you, stimulating the clitoris is a sure fire way to get you hot! I hope this helps.