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Hey there i am really new at this and was wondering if you could help me with soemthing. It is my first time masterbating and am 14. i have never done it before and am really nervus. i tried it just now and i shoved the end of my hair brush up my pussy it felt good and i felt this tingy feeling and like everything bunched up inside and i felt like had to fart but i didn't. is that a orgasm? now how will i know when i cum? or how can i make myself cum? i am just really lost and was hoping you could help me as much as possible. and any other ideas for what i could stick up? and how many times should i do it a day? so yeah please help me..hah. thanks so much-kelsey

i hope you dont mind a guy answering... but based off what ive read on this site...yea thats an orgasm

as i am a guy also idk everything but bear with me...as some friends of mine do this sometimes with me talkign to them i have a base knowledge. my friend uses thing aroudn the size of maybe the end of those swords that pretend to stab you by retracting into it self...just remove the top most one the one with the rounded top you can do this as many times a day as you see fit, i dont reccomend going overboard because it becomes routine rather than exxhilirating i do it like 3 times a day because i dont feel right if i dont also your fingers are easier to navigate than your toys and the such. dont forget the clit and the lips and surrounding area though they want attention also. yes i belueve that was an orgasm (men feel like they need to pee) cumming normally happens during orgasm or right after so you might not have had a full orgasm, so when you feel that tingling keep going you'll know when it feels really good and you cant move. other than that welcome to A2A and good job on masterbating, i think it really reluieves stress and is better than watching tv for hours on end. read up theres some great things here

you private msgd that EXACT same post to me. im just confused now. :confused:

no..i answered her right away..i was online when she msgd it.

my email said that you asked me why im so mean at times...but its not on this forum..so now im even more confused LOL!!..(and its a song btw-about the whole medication thing)

If I had a orgasm each time I farted, Id have to tie a hefty garbage bag around my cock to keep from soaking may pants thru the day.

Seems like she PM'd a lot of people with the same text/question... weird.

**yep i got one too. **

..i dont try to be mean. there are a few people on here who i find mean. i speak my opinion. isnt that what were supposed to do?. and i only just recently put it to email me when somones replies to me lol. and apparently she pm'd other people to. i never really said anything mean..i said i was confused on this forum. how is that being mean???like i said,i dont want to be mean....i really dont. and to anyone else who thinks that, im sorry. but if i cant say what i want to on here, theres not much point of me to be here. i came to this place to help people with their problems, have a few laughs,and have some people help me as well. i dont even feel like i can post my personal problems on here anymore...i dont want to feel this way (i absolutely LOVE this site!!)*maybe the girl who posted on here didnt really know what the difference is to posting a forum, and pming someone. shes new,and i know i was confused at first too.i dont want to start anything on here, so im just not gonna reply to anything said to me thats mean from now on. theres not much of a point i guess. so everyone...im sorry. i really am. if i made you feel uncomfortable, i really never tried to. i thought i was helping.to the girl who posted here, if you check your private messages, you should find my answer just click on the envelope above, near the main index button, or go into "my home". hope i helped.

weird..

So did I but I didn't have an answer for her so I told her to post her question in this forum