i know its hard to explain the situation and stuff on a forum cuz all u know is what i type but here it goes anyways...ok so me and my girlfriend were talking on the phone as usual...and we started to talk about relationships and as we talked we both agree that in our relationship there is a problem...we see that..but we do not know what the problem is...it kills me to know that there is a problem cuz i love her so much..and which also kills me is that she is a girl that thinks of everything really negativly...she'll give up really easily..i.e this situation..she thinks there is a problem but she doesn't know what it is..she'll want to give up and say break up with me..which REALLY kills me...so i would just like to know if anyone of you have similiar problems...theres sumthing there in a relationship preventing you guys from getting closer but u do not know what it is...or maybe u do know? or any experts ?? i thought it was a lack of communication..but i don't think so...cuz we see each other everday.....talk on the phone everday...and basically tell each other everything....so please hlep...
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Problems in a relationship
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I had a similar situation, but it was my instincts telling me something was wrong. I tried telling myself I was just paranoid but was right all along about a "problem". It's possible she's hiding something more serious from you and is too scared to admit to it. Although, it sounds to me like you're both being paranoid over nothing. Try to think about what life would be like without each other. Respect the fact you're not alone and have someone that cares for you. If either one of you doesn't feel that way you're both gonna be miserable.
Don't just say "My life sucks without you." You really have to THINK about it and understand completely what it means.
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How old are you and how old is your girlfriend? That will help me to give you an answer that might be appropriate. I gotta know where you're coming from....
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we are both 16 and thanks big jay...i guess ur right..we probably are just paranoid about it..we should be happy that there is sumone u know that cares....i'll try to talk her into it..
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As Big Jay said: "Try to think about what life would be like without each other". That's good advice; if there is no real underlying problem and it's just a bout of paranoia you're going through at the same time it might snap you both out of it.