Ok heres the deal, I would really like to masturbate with my cousin, (we're both guys of the same age), and ive tried to talk him into it, but he really doesnt seem too comfortable with it.
I know that you mustnt put pressure on anyone or expect anything, but we're really close otherwise, but when it comes to masturbation hes really uncomfortable.
We usually watch porn when he's over at my place, and of course we get horny as hell, but since he doesnt wanna masturbate with me it all gets kind of awkward since we have to go to the bathroom to jack off, which I know he does too.
Once I asked him if we shouldnt jack off, and he replied that he didnt wanna do it at my house, my parents being home and all (note that this was very late everyone was asleep and about 0% chance of someone walking in on us), but he said that I should do it if I want to, and later I did.
Anyways, how can I get him more comfortable with jacking off with me in his vicinity, because I think it would probably a very exciting experience?
I don't think you should be pressuring him into it. It sounds like he has said on several occasions that he's not interested. You need to respect his decision. I'd leave it at that.
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If it helps any you should probably leave him alone then walk in on him and he might be doing it. Hey and I didnt say it would work its just a suggestion I know I have walked in on my brother doing it and he didnt stop lol. But thats just me.
Personally, I would go with Amanda's advice and leave him be since it sounds like he's not interested. However, if you think perhaps he's just too embarassed about it, you could just break the ice by going ahead and doing it in front of him. If he freaks out or leaves the room or something, then you know for sure that you shouldn't pursue it any more. Just a thought; but again, I'd just leave him alone about it if I were you.
I hear ya, I think he might be embarrased, but as I said, Im not going to push him if he really doesnt want to.
It just really annoys the hell out of me to watch porn and not be able to jack off because he's uncomfortable with it.
Well, the future will tell, if I start jacking off more often when he's around maybe he'll start too?
Thanks for the (little) advice, if you got anything else up your sleeve, post it