Guy just openly looked at my dick :S

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THis right made me uncomfortable. Was using urinal in the loos of a bar and my buddy next to me was talking to me but instead of looking at the wall infront or looking me in the eye he just looked non-stop streight at my dick. At first I couldnt believe it and didnt know how to react, then I waved my hand at him and said "wtf you looking at my dick for?". The guy deffinately isnt gay, i dont know why he would do this. Guys, do you ever just look at your mates dicks like this?

What can I say; guys do look. Whether furtive glances or steady gaze or outrightly stare. It's just natural curiousity and we all succumb to it in one way or another. Besides, I suspect might have been looking for somethign attractive to look at instead of the wall in front of him. And possibly he's already seen your face so he was seeking a different view of you. It's like, most bar washrooms are pretty awful when it comes to decor so he was just taking advantage of a more pleasing to the eye scene. Plus if he'd had a drink or three by that time he probably wasn't even conscious of what he was staring at.
My usual line when someone takes too long a look is along the line of "didn't your mom mention that it's not polite to stare?". That usually averts their gaze to a more neutral place (for at least a few seconds - hehe). Oh, and if it makes him totally uncomfortable that I caught him staring I will add that I don't mind him looking; just not staring.

Its normal (I think). Other men are just curious. One problem which worries teenagers (again, i think) is "Am I too big?" or "Am I too small?". I mean, I got to confess, when I'm talking to certain people, I look no where else other than 'their package'. Its natural, i can't help it - but there ya go

Well...He wanted to look, and males are not exactly subtle when eyeing sumthing up are they?
Yes, a little bit on the odd side as most people would avoid the direct staring thing for fear of getting the living shit kicked out of them but, he's your mate, so maybe this was a safe way for him to have a perve.

I had this period of time way back when when I was facinated with breast, not in a sexual way, but I just was and I'm sure some woman must have seen me staring at some point in time...
Meh, it's not that big a deal, but I can see how it comes off as very weird as most men seem to realise that openly looking at another guy is a bad life choice if you value your scrotum, internal organs and reputation as a streight man.

you friend NEEDS to watch this Male Restroom Etiquette

LOLthat was a riot.the urinal rules precluding using open ones just because the ones on either side are occupied. I can just see trying to follow that one at intermission in a movie or between periods at a sports event when every guy in the place has to go.And the no talking rule leading to SWAT teams and world anarchy is priceless.I say the only rule worth following is if you gotta go then enter, step up to a urinal, unzip and pee. And if you are talking with a another guy as you enter, why stop the conversation just because you are going to pee; it's not as if you'd be talking with your mouth full.

ROFL! That video was just plain old hilarious

funny but true. VERY true

Could be worseHe could have looked away in disgust

don't see nothing wrong with that, guys always check each other out it's called penis envy!!! maybe he couldn't believe how small you are !!!! JOKE

Haha that was ingenius Crazy :smile:

Guys are always comparing to find out how they 'measure up' to their peers (pun intended). If it isn't dick size, it's how much weight you can lift at the gym or how tall you are. It doesn't mean anything, and I recommend you ignore it.

Cheers, I thought it was hallerious when a very good friend of mine sent it to me and I thought of this thread right away

Given that Billy Conolly, Bill Hicks, Richard Prior, Robin Williams, Ben Elton, David Baddiel, Jim Davidson, Jackie Mason, Bob Newhart and too many other comedians to mention have all done routines about guys looking at other guys' penises (penii?) at the urinal, I'd say it's just something that blokes do - even though most of us don't admit it

haha, penii, like cacti

In reply to: penises (penii?) lol i was just discussing that with a friend the other day, it would sound cooler if it were peni instead of penises and yes that would be pretty annoying but ive never really been next to a guy in a urinal as i rarely use public bathrooms

one penis many penii...

I don't know how much you'd get to use it, I mean, how often do u refer to a group od penises?
Well, if I ever do I think I will use penii instead for the humor