In reply to: there isn't much a girl can get out of it, How do you know? What does a guy 'get out' of licking kitty? My guess would be the guy gets a nice feeling of pleasuring his woman. Same goes for tit-fucking.To the OP, sorry that there is not much you can do about this issue. I agree with Angel though, focus on something else that he likes and makes you feel comfortable about yourself.
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Would like to tit-fuck but have small tits..
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Like I said, I believe it is more based on a domination factor rather than anything else. It's kind of like those pornos out there where the guy like FORCES his penis down her throat, grabbing her hair, back of her head etc, that isn't sex, it's power.Oral sex is a two-way street, you make your gf/wife happy with oral sex, she'll return the favour; either through oral sex on the guy, or during sexual intercourse.However, in the end; everyone to thier own. I shant argue the topic of fetishes beyond what appears fair to both partners.
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In reply to: where the guy like FORCES his penis down her throat, grabbing her hair, back of her head etc, that isn't sex, it's power. LOL, that's a total turn on for me! And I wasn't trying to argue if that's what you thought. Just curious as to why you think a woman would not 'get anything out of it'.
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In reply to:Oral sex is a two-way street, you make your gf/wife happy with oral sex, she'll return the favour; either through oral sex on the guy, or during sexual intercourse. couldnt it be the same basic principle with "tit-fucking"? as if the woman allows the man to do so, then he returns the favor with something they either both get pleasure from or something she does? whilst it sounds interesting i doubt itd be better than vaginal or anal
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It just seems disrespectful to do it to a woman, that's all. Kind of like calling her a bitch or smacking her, I guess it's all in your personal turn-ons, though.Ultimatly I have no business over one's personal lives; I'm just sharing my opinions. Hopefully not to the point of ad nauseam.
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where the guy like FORCES his penis down her throat, grabbing her hair, back of her head etc, that isn't sex, it's power. have to agree with lisa on this one too, thats such a turn on for me too
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I'll try that with my gf...I'll take a picture of my detached balls after she rips them off, lol.
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Well, you have a butt crack right? LOL, just lube that up and without penetration, let him go at that for a while...can't imagine it would be a whole lot different unless you have a really hairy butt!Anyway, do you hear the echo? Implants or just accept it. I am sure if he loves you small boobs won't be a deal breaker.
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hmm, it seems like he is into the male dominating factor.he likes to call me a bitch and smack me (not too hard).took me a while to get used to it. after that somehow i find it a turn on too, perhaps i like to be dominated over, or seeing him getting so hot over it, also gets me very hot..
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he has mentioned if i am opened to plastic surgery, to get a boob implant.
for me, i never thought of a boob implant until he mentioned, i think my boobs are perfectly beautiful.
but, if it is really very very very important to him, i may just do it.
i have heard that after child-birth, boobs will increase in size? is that true? if it is, perhaps i can look forward to that some years down the road :smile: -
lol on the post of the buttcheeks, you might as well let him go full fury there, lest his penis "accidently" slip in lol
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> if it is really very very very important to him, i may just do it.
Is this someone you're planning to spend the rest of your life with?
If he selfish enough to want you to get plastic surgery so he can tit-fuck you, then you have a big problem with your relationship. If you'd really consider doing it, then you have a serious problem with yourself.
Tell him you'll surgically increase your boob size if he surgiclly incrases his penis size.
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true, it is a nice feeling if i am able to give him pleasure. there are plenty of other things that he likes that i can pleasure him by. however, once in a while, he will say something like "if u had big tits, i will tit-fuck u everyday", and at those times, i can't help but feel inadequate..sigh, has anyone gone for implants? does it hurt? what's the cost like? will you lose sensitivity in ur tits after implants?
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If he's making you feel inadequate about your breast size, then he is truly a jerk.
There are a lot of downsides to breast implants, among them that:
o a plastic surgeon who really knows what he's doing is expensive
o they usually don't look natural
o they certainly don't feel natural; the saline ones feel kind of like softballs
o they tend to leak over time -- they have a limited lifespan
o they can make it more difficult to detect breast cancerUnless it's something you really want to do for yourself, it's a bad idea. Also, a lot of men find smaller breasts very attractive.
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"Tell him you'll surgically increase your boob size if he surgiclly incrases his penis size."this is a good one. i will use this line the next time he suggests a boob implant and see what he says
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He says that? Ouch Ego-smack Kudos for your good nature not to rip his balls off. That's like saying to a guy "If you had a bigger penis, I'd suck it everyday"Breast implants aren't cheap, they run anywhere from $3000-$7000 or more, depending on who you're going to and where you're going to have it done. Also, they are not a life-time thing. Currently, most implants have a life-span of about 10 years (Although I'm sure that'll get better) It's just a fact of life that they'll break down or deflate.This is a great website provided by the FDA that sums everything up in an easy-to-read format.http://www.fda.gov/cdrh/breastimplants/breast_implant_risks_brochure.html
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omg..they leak!!!gee, i love my boobs now, because i fall in the category of sensitive breasts. if he fondles and licks my breasts, i can get an orgasm out of it..can't imagine if it does not feel natural..and leak...and breast cancer!!thanks Steve, i have made up my mind. my boobs are remaining in their lovely natural state.
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> i fall in the category of sensitive breasts
In that case, I would absolutely not risk it. Even if you get the best surgeon, there is still a risk of nerve damage, and it's possible that you could lose sensation in a nipple, or both, if you're very unlucky. Even if that doesn't happen, "changes in sensation" are a possibility, as pointed out in the FDA page.
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"He says that? Ouch Ego-smack Kudos for your good nature not to rip his balls off. That's like saying to a guy "If you had a bigger penis, I'd suck it everyday""
haha :smile: good!! i will use this line on him the next time he tells me that if i have bigger tits he will tit-fuck me everyday :smile: maybe that way, he can feel how "inadequate" or how it hurts me when he says that.
"http://www.fda.gov/cdrh/breastimplants/breast_implant_risks_brochure.html"
Thanks Hawker, :smile: this website has succeeded in scaring me off boob implants for life. the pictures of the malfunctioning boob implants is disgusting. my natural boobs are far more beautiful than any of the pictures!
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God bless, and enjoy your body as you deserve to. Best of luck
