My gf recently started giving me handjobs, I'm her first so she doesn't really know how to do it yet. Or she might know, but she's really gentle and I'm just letting her get the feel for it first. Like I said, she's really gentle when she does it and it's not quite right yet but I'm just letting her do her own thing for now. The problem I'm having is that after a while sometimes I lose my erection during and I don't know why. I'm scared that it's not normal. Neither of us have had sex before and I'm even MORE worried that the same thing might happen when we have sex. How can I fix losing my erection like that during her handjobs?Oh I'm 16 and I can masturbate fine, if that matters.
-
Erection while getting handjob
-
You have your own way of masturbating and you do the things you like for yourself, so its different when someone else does it for you because they cant read your mind. Its important to be able to communicate freely with your girlfriend so she can know how to please you. Communication on how to please eachother will especially come in handy if/when you engage in sex.
-
It seems your penis is getting bored with the stimulation your GF is giving you as in she needs to change things - grip, how hard she squeezes, how fast she strokes - that kinda thing........after a while of the same thing, some guys lose sensation, i would imagine that when she feels more comfortable and varies things as i mentioned you won't be losing your erection at all.Good to hear someone saying they are letting their GF go at her own pace and build up confidence, too many guys seems to think their GF should be the best straight away.Try not to worry about this, im sure things will change, but worrying can also have the same effect and i don't think you have anything to worry about.
-
ummmmm loneranger to be honest it isnt ABNORMAL because ive gone floppy while getting head and while havin sex. But with me i actually feel like im gettin bored
-
The same kind of thing has happened a few times to me.I wasn't excited enough to keep me interested... I'm guessing that Your penis knows it's boring too.... Tell her she need to kiss is and make it feel so much better....
-
i was just about to make a thread about this smae kinda of thing. ok heres my problem:Pretty much my G/F has givin me alot of HJs and i'm never gotten completely off just from her doing it. I have no problem getting off when i do it myself. Just recently tho, she has been trying to get me all the way off and i can't. We try things like you guys suggested doing it differnt ways and giving it some variation. Still nothin, she got pretty close one time and well thats about really it. Its is so frustrating. And even more recetly we tryed her watching me finish myself off, so she kinda knows how i do it. We've done that 4 or 5 times, but still nothin when she does it.so is it just me not be relaxed enough or what, we're throughly confused and frustrated. Any ideas/opinions?ps. sry for kinda of jackin your thread.
-
dude if you do still jack off, STOP and if the time between handjobs is decent, youll be fine
