i honestly absolutly have the biggest crush on this one guy and i want to be hid girlfriend sooooooooooooooo bad. me and him talk CONSTANTLY on AIM and for hours on the phone everyday, i'm accualy talking to him on AIM right now, lol. only 3 of my friends know that i like him and one of my bestest friends said that she's gunna do some "research" to see if he likes me in that way also.how can i tell how he feels about me with out asking him???? i'm a really shy person and i think if i ask him if he likes me as a gf then out friendship we have now will go away.should i flirt with him more and make it odvious that i like him or is that a bad idea?yea see i need help.
I need help........i don't knwo what to do
You don't have to ask him to be your girlfriend (or your wife, for that matter). Just ask him if he wants to hang out, or go to the mall, or grab a burger, or whatever it is that you like to do. If he keeps making excuses not to, then you'll have your answer. Going on the way you're going on doesn't sound like much fun.When you start doing research with your friends over who likes who, you're likely to get useless information. He may just be shy, or not know what to do. Someone should make a move. It might as well be you.
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. -- MLK
If a guy invests a lot of time in a girl, most of the time it's because he likes her.
yea well one thing is that his mom is not to happy about the idea of him hanging out with girls, so that can cause a problem in us hanging out.
and with him talking to me so much outside of school i hope he feels that way.
Chances are he's gonna find a way to hang out with girls whether mama likes it or not. So while it may make things a little more difficult it more than likely isn't going to keep him from it.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.