My girlfriend and i have just started having sex recently and, while I think she has no problem reaching orgasms and such, I do have a problem getting to orgasm when we're having sex. I can orgasm fine when I masturbate, but it seems that every time we've had sex so far, which is three or four times (she's my first), I haven't been able to reach orgasm. We just keep at it and the latest time, it actually started to get a bit sore for her so I told her we could stop. Is this a common problem at all? Or is it more psychological than anything?I don't totally mind because all I really want to do is please her, but I also want it to be able to let her please me as well. I don't want to have to masturbate to reach orgasm. Thanks for the help!
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Trouble male reaching orgasm
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We can be so used to the sensations of masturbation that real sex feels too different at first. (This doesn't happen to everyone, but it's fairly common.) It's largely just a matter of practice, though refraining from masturbating for a few days beforehand may help.
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I refrained from masturbation for four or five days the most recent time and still nothing. I guess I'll just do that again for next time and just keep trying until it happens haha. From what you say, I guess it just takes practice huh.
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Yes, keep practicing.
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I have this problem too and Im waiting for it to change. Ive been having some good sex for a month and still havent ejaculated. I wish I had the real answer to it..
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Assuming you're using a condom,you might want to try an ultra-light for more sensitivity?
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wow heard of guys ejaculating to early, at least you guys can please your girl though.