My wife and I are both curious, and would like to swing with another couple. There's a workmate who I "think" feels the same way with his partner.
How would you go about bringing this up with the other couple?
Thanks for your help.
Approach another couple for sex.
I'm not so sure if this is the place to ask this question because many of our members aren't into the threesome/swinging thing. You may be better off searching for those types of forums on other websites.
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I donno, I guess the way to go about it is to get into a converstaion with this guy where you can meantion swinging casually and see his feelings and opinions of it without putting yourself at risk if he dosn't turn out to feel the same way.
I hope you fully consider the consequenses to your relationship with your wife by doing somthing like this. Make sure you're both ok with your partner sleeping with someone else because adding another person or people into your relationship can really fuck things up later on and can end a relationship in some cases.
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Bring it up in a jocular manner at first and then just slowly feel him out. Let him know your into it without propositioning him and his wife. Show interest but not in a way that puts any pressure on him. Once he knows where you stand, if they're interested in swinging and are interested in you all then they'll let you know and you can hook-up.
Have you and your wife thought about all the consequences and set some ground rules for doing this. It usually causes more stress in a relationship than most think it's going to.
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