i usually cum too fast. i think is more of a mental thing since if i watch a porn or do it with a stranger i cum faster. does anyone have any coments or suggestions on how to overcome this?
you have sex with strangers? like..a prostitute?
*~I don't mind living in a man's world..As long as I can be a woman in it!~* -Marilyn
like when you do it with someone that you have not known a long time or a one night stand thing.
There are exercises you can do to help your longevity in bed. For instance, if your masterbating, try to get close to your climax point but dont blow your load. Dont get to that point of no return. Doing this may help you be able to control your orgasm better. Let it cool off a bit and do it again. Things like that usually help. Also, if your with a person and you feel it getting close, stop and change position. the short break may help you. It wont help her because she can go from hot to cold in a matter of seconds. But anything to help you will in the end help her aswell.
Sometimes these problems arnt physical, but psychological.
If you practice prolonging your orgasam and are still having trouble, it could be something deeper.